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5. Seek first to understand, then to be understood

5. Seek first to understand, then to be understood

This habit emphasizes the importance of listening and empathizing with others before seeking to be understood. It involves seeking to understand the perspectives, needs, and feelings of others before presenting our point of view. By seeking first to understand, we can build rapport, demonstrate respect, and create a safe space for open communication.

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This comprehensive self-help book presents a holistic approach to personal and professional development. Covey identifies seven key habits that successful people possess, based on timeless principles and values, and explains how to cultivate them in your own life. The habits include being proactive, beginning with the end in mind, putting first things first, thinking win-win, seeking to understand, and then to be understood, synergizing, and continuously improving. Covey emphasizes the importance of a paradigm shift, focusing on inner change before seeking external success.

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