That is why it is not uncommon nowadays to hear someone say “I’m learning to forgive myself” (usually under the guidance of a therapist), as if such learning were hard and valuable work.
According to more traditional ways of thinking, learning to forgive oneself is learning how to act without scruple, how to forge ahead without regard to other people, how – in effect – to become a psychopath.
Whatever else you may do, you must always love and esteem yourself, otherwise you are doomed to a life of sterile self-denigration.
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The author of Admirable Evasions is Theodore Dalrymple, the pen name of Anthony Daniels, a British cultural critic, psychiatrist, and former prison doctor. He is best known for his sharp critiques of modern culture, ideology, and the psychological worldview that he argues has replaced traditional moral thinking.
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