Traditional win-lose negotiation is outdated. The modern approach? Creative problem-solving.✔️ Focus on interests, not positions.✔️ View the other party as a partner in discovery, not an opponent.✔️ Expand the pie before you divide it—co-create value first.💡 The new game of negotiation is about alignment, not conquest.

2. Negotiation Is No Longer a Battle—It’s a Collaboration

✔️ Conflict can be a catalyst for clarity, creativity, and alignment.✔️ Rather than avoid it, ask: “What’s the opportunity in this tension?”✔️ Use conflict to expose assumptions, spark ideas, and build better outcomes.💡 Your discomfort is often the doorway to your breakthrough.

3. High Performers Embrace “Constructive Tension” 🔥

“Conflict, when engaged with skill and empathy, becomes a crucible for trust, creativity, and connection.”

✔️ Short-term victories that damage trust cost more in the long run.✔️ Aim for agreements that benefit both sides over time.✔️ People remember how you treated them more than what you agreed on.💡 Play the infinite game—strong relationships are the real ROI.

4. Seek Long-Term Gains Over Short-Term Wins 📈

Bill Sanders and Frank Mobus challenge the outdated belief that conflict should be avoided.<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Constructive conflict is essential for innovation, growth, and better solutions.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Suppressing disagreement breeds resentment and mediocrity.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">True leadership lies in engaging conflict skillfully—not running from it.</li></ul>💡 The best teams don’t avoid conflict—they master it.

1. Conflict Isn’t the Enemy—Mismanagement Is

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✔️ Great negotiators prepare flexible frameworks, not fixed scripts.✔️ Understand your goals, values, walk-away point—and theirs.✔️ Leave space for unexpected insights and creative possibilities.💡 Preparation builds confidence—rigidity destroys rapport.

7. Prepare Strategically, Not Rigidly 🗂️

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5. Are You Ready to Master Conflict and Elevate Your Influence?

✔️ The most successful negotiators read the room, regulate their reactions, and stay curious.✔️ Mastering tone, timing, and empathy turns arguments into breakthroughs.✔️ Listening deeply is often more persuasive than speaking forcefully.💡 People don’t resist ideas—they resist feeling unheard.

6. Emotional Intelligence is Your Hidden Weapon 🧠💬

From Creative Conflict, you’ll learn to:✅ Shift from win-lose tactics to co-creative negotiation.✅ Turn tension into productive energy that drives innovation.✅ Foster long-term partnerships through trust and transparency.✅ Use emotional intelligence to manage reactions and influence outcomes.✅ Embrace conflict as a skill to be honed—not a danger to avoid.💡 Mastering conflict isn’t optional—it’s essential for modern leadership.

9. Summary – Transform Conflict into a Competitive Advantage 🌟

Learn how to transform friction into innovation using modern negotiation techniques that foster trust, creativity, and long-term success—even in high-stakes, high-pressure situations.

"Negotiation is stuck-it's time for something new. Almost everything is negotiable, almost every interaction a negotiation. And in no field is this clearer than in business, where every day we need to work with others to get things done. But when we have real differences, is a win-win always possible? Or must every negotiation be a zero-sum game, with a winner and a loser? Over the last half century, these two opposing philosophies have ruled the field: the win-lose, tooth-and-nail battle plan identified with training guru Chester Karrass, and the win-win, 'principled' creed of Getting to Yes, by Harvard's Roger Fisher and William Ury. Both were game changers in their day, but neither approach fully meets the challenges of today's volatile, disruptive, ultracompetitive business environment, where strategic problem-solving is a crucial skill, and time is of the essence. In Creative Conflict, negotiation experts Bill Sanders and Frank Mobus provide something new. They use a dynamic, dialectical approach to show that negotiations are driven by competition and cooperation at the same time, counterintuitively revealing that conflict is at the core of every negotiation. When we tiptoe around conflict, we negotiate in a half-hearted way that limits our results. Creative negotiators probe and push until they hit a wall of disagreement, then figure out how to get past it. The authors construct a simple framework based on three basic but distinct contexts: bargaining, dealmaking, and relationship building. They then instruct readers on how to skillfully pursue their own interests while simultaneously seeking ways to expand a deal's scope and value for both sides. Based on the popular Mobus Creative Negotiating seminars and the authors' experience working with Fortune 500 companies, Creative Conflict is a business book written for businesspeople, by businesspeople. It's your go-to guide for boosting your skills and confidence as a negotiator-and learning to strike a better deal"--

BILL SANDERS

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