6. Exploit Your Enemy’s Weakness

Intentional planning helps us achieve our goals and reduce anxiety. Follow the 4-step STAR method:

• S- Strategy: Review your upcoming goals.
• T-Tasks: Clarify and identify what tasks are to be done to achieve those goals, and prioritize them.

The halo effect is the tendency to apply positive or negative characteristics of a whole to each of its constituent parts.

For product managers, the halo effect can be particularly dangerous; if a project succeeds, it’s because the strategy, execution, and leaders...

This actually makes it harder to control your aggression.

The solution is to turn the relationship around. Acknowledge and accept your anger for what it is. Then, direct your efforts at control toward your aggression.