You are not living to satisfy the expectations of others.
ICHIRO KISHIMI
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We spend so much energy being “liked”, by friends, coworkers, strangers on the internet. But what if freedom begins with not caring what others think? This book, built on Adlerian psychology, teaches us that happiness comes from accepting yourself, not editing yourself
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