Breaking The Reactive Dynamic
Whenever we realize that the conversation is going downhill, it is important to ask ourselves these questions:
- What is this person reacting to? Are they perceiving me to be disrespectful, biased, or narcissistic?
- Am I acting like the kind of person I want to be?
We must remember to act according to our deeper values instead of blindly reacting to situations and always ask the other person to do the same.
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