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“Just Say No” Is Bad Productivity Advice

“Just Say No” Is Bad Productivity Advice

  • Usually, all productivity advice says: “Say NO often, make time for other things.
  • This sounds smart but isn’t always practical
  • Eg: You can’t always say NO to your boss. You can’t always say NO to your partner in doing household chores.
  • What to do instead? : Learn to ask a better question.

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