Is Your Problem Not Having Friends?

Someone who says "If you can't keep friends as a grown ass adult, that's a you-problem, not an adulting problem" is likely more extroverted and may not fully understand the deeper dynamics that can affect friendships, especially for introverts or those going through personal growth.

Extroverts tend to place a higher value on social connections and may find it easier to make and maintain friendships. They might see not having friends as an individual issue, rather than considering the complexities of life, personal circumstances, or emotional growth that could affect someone's ability to form deep connections.