How to talk to anyone

In order to show someone that you are engaged and interested in what they are saying, it is important to follow these simple steps:

• Give your full attention when they speak.
• Pivot your body completely toward them.

Active listening involves making the other person feel important and valued. Use phrases like "Tell me more" and "I'm listening" to encourage them to open up.

Some other key tips for active listening are:

• Make eye contact and nod to show you are engaged with what they are saying.
• Paraphrase and repeat back what they have said to show you understand and are paying attention.
• Avoid interrupting or finishing their sentences.

Repeat the last few words of what they said to show engagement.

This makes them feel heard and valued.

Don’t overshare too quickly.

Build rapport before diving into personal stories.

People love excitement - respond with enthusiasm.

Say "That's amazing!" to keep the conversation flowing.

Avoid generic flattery like "You're great."

Instead, say something unique about them.

🔹 Example: "I love how you explain things - it's so engaging!"

People love hearing their own name.

Use it naturally in conversation to create a deeper connection.

Use a friendly approach by focusing on others instead of yourself.

Give others a chance to express themselves and they will warm up to you.

When correcting someone, they often feel defensive. Instead, say something like "That's an interesting perspective." This way, you show that you are open to different ideas.

• You can still share your own perspective
• It shows respect for other ideas
• Avoids unnecessary conflict

Remember, correcting isn't always the best way to communicate. Keep an open mind and be open to learning from others.

If they are excited, match their excitement.

If they are calm, don't be too loud or over-the-top.

• Remember to adapt to their energy to make them feel comfortable.

Don't just say "Thanks."

• Add a reason—"Thank you for helping, that really made my day easier!"

In order to be remembered, consider the following:

• Focus on making others feel positive
• End every conversation positively

🔹 Example: “It was so great talking to you—let’s do this again soon!”

If someone is shy, say “You’re such a great listener.”

They’ll unconsciously try to match that expectation.

Do you know how powerful open body language can be?🤔 Keep your palms visible and posture open to appear friendly and approachable!👍 But🚫 do not cross your arms, it emits closed-off energy.🙅 So keep those palms open!👐

Key points:

1. Open body language = approachable
2. Closed-off energy = crossed arms
3. Keep palms visible and posture open

Always add something extra to greetings.

Instead of “Hi,” say “Hi! So great to see you today!”

Light teasing (done right) builds bonds, but avoid anything that could hurt their feelings.

Teasing can be a fun way to connect with someone, but it's important to be mindful of the other person's feelings. Here are some tips:

• Keep it light and playful
• Don't tease about sensitive topics
• Pay attention to their reactions and stop if they seem uncomfortable
• Apologize if you accidentally cross the line

Don't talk about yourself for more than three sentences in a row.

Switch back to asking about them.

Spotlight people's strengths.

• Highlight their achievements, talents, or unique traits.
• 🔹 Example: "You always bring such great energy to a conversation!"