Luis J Torres's Key Ideas from The Five Love Languages
by Gary Chapman

Verbal compliments and expressions of appreciation deeply impact people who value this language.

Doing helpful or thoughtful things (like chores or errands) expresses love to people with this language.

For some, a thoughtful gift symbolizes love and care more than words or actions.

Undivided attention and meaningful conversations make people with this love language feel cherished.

Holding hands, hugs, or other physical connections are essential for those who feel love through touch.

Regularly “speaking” your partner’s love language keeps emotional intimacy strong.

Over time or through life stages, your primary love language might shift.

1. Learning your partner’s love language helps express affection in ways they understand, leading to deeper emotional connection and satisfaction.

2. Miscommunication in love often stems from using your own language instead of your partner’s, creating unmet needs and frustration.

3. Love is a choice and a discipline—consistently speaking your partner’s language shows commitment beyond fleeting feelings.