“Your voice is an instrument—learn to play it intentionally.”By simply becoming aware that how you speak (tone, pace, pause, pitch) is more influential than what you say, your communication begins to shift. People respond to presence, rhythm, and feeling—this awareness alone changes how you’re heard.

Goal: Learn how dynamic delivery keeps people engaged.Practice using contrast in voice: loud/soft, fast/slow, bright/serious.Integrate body language shifts with voice changes for deeper impact.Challenge: Deliver a 60-second story using 3 clear vocal contrasts.

Contrast Is Charisma

He introduces the idea of the “vocal toolbox”:Pace: Slow down to emphasize meaning.Tone: Match emotional nuance.Volume: Quietness can be more powerful than loudness.Silence: A strategic pause builds respect.

Vocal Mastery: More Than Speaking Clearly

Many think confidence is being loud or assertive. Vinh reframes this:“Confidence is grace under pressure—it’s when you can pause, invite others in, and speak like you’re worth being heard without proving it.”

The Illusion of Confidence

Drawing from his magician background, Vinh compares good communication to stage presence:You don’t just speak—you perform.Movement, breath, and eye contact matter just as much as words.

Performance as Presence

He emphasizes that the quality of your speaking reflects:Your self-awarenessYour beliefs about your own worthYour ability to manage emotion while engaging others

Mindset Training = Speaking Upgrade

<ol><li>Record yourself speaking and analyze your energy shifts.</li></ol>	2.	Practice one-minute talks using contrast (fast/slow, soft/loud).	3.	Read aloud intentionally, playing with voice control.	4.	Meditate before conversations to increase emotional clarity and reduce nervous filler words.

✨ Practical Shifts

Goal: Move from reactive speech to purposeful communication.Practice setting a clear communication intention before you speak.Ask: “What experience do I want the listener to have?”Drill: Speak on a random topic with the goal of evoking curiosity, then trust, then inspiration.

Speaking with Intent — Not Habit

Goal: Harness timing and silence to command attention.Learn to pause before key points.Use 2-second silences to reset the listener’s mind.Exercise: Say something powerful and pause. Let it land. Notice the tension and release.

The Power of Pause & Silence

Goal: Speak like a performer, show up like a leader.	•	Mirror work: Practice eye contact, open posture, and facial expression.	•	Daily Drill: Deliver a greeting or introduction as if on a stage.	•	Identify a “power pose” you can adopt before big conversations.

Presence = Performance

Vinh explains that people often unknowingly push others away with a monotone, dominating, or overly rehearsed speaking style. The real issue isn’t content—it’s how you make others feel when you speak.

Core Concept: Communication = Influence + Perception

Goal: Unlock awareness of your voice as your most powerful tool.Learn to identify volume, pitch, tone, and pace in your everyday speech.Exercise: Record yourself reading a short paragraph three ways: flat, expressive, intentional.Reflection: How does each version make you feel? How would it make others feel?

Voice Awareness — The Instrument Within

Goal: Build deep communication confidence through reflection and refinement.Replace “I hope they like me” with “I hope I serve them well.”Rehearse with feedback: film yourself, review posture, tone, and clarity.Create a weekly journal with these prompts:What did I say well this week?Where did I disconnect from my voice?What one tweak will I apply next time?

Rewire Confidence Through Repetition

Talking without breaksNot allowing others room to speakSpeaking in one tone or energyThis isn’t dominance—it’s insecurity disguised as confidence.

Key Mistake: “Monopolizing the Conversation”

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Speaking with confidence isn’t a gift, it’s a skill - Vinh Giang reveals the blueprint to mastering the art of communicationVinh Giang is an award-winning entrepreneur, part-magician, and full time communication coach. He runs masterclasses and has helped thousands of people improve their communication and vocal skills.In this conversation, Vinh and Steven discuss topics such as, the top speaking mistake that makes people ignore you, small mistakes that make you unlikeable, how to effortlessly speak with power and confidence, and the number one word to avoid to be taken seriously.00:00 Intro02:15 Why Do You Do What You Do?04:12 How Much Will This Information Change Your Life?06:28 The Importance of Communication in Your Life and Career09:17 How Easy Is It to Make a Radical Change in Your Communication Skills?10:57 What's the Biggest Change People Experience?11:56 How Cracking Your Communication Will Change Your Life12:59 Why Should People Listen to You?18:47 Three Ways to Change How You're Perceived by Others20:28 What Is Vocal Image and How Does It Help Us?23:00 How Melody Evokes Emotions27:31 How to Know If You're Overdoing It30:55 The Importance of Pauses in Your Speech35:03 What Volume of Voice Signals Confidence?36:46 Create Emotion With Your Voice37:25 Gesticulating With Your Face41:31 The Storytelling Formula43:56 VAKS: Relive a Story, Don't Report It!47:22 Run These Techniques in the Real World50:30 Is There a Voice Tone That Makes People Dislike You?52:59 Practical Steps to Know If You're Good at Speaking57:34 Remove the Clutter Words From Your Speaking1:02:37 Ads1:03:33 What to Do Before You Go on Stage1:05:20 Warm Up Your Mouth and Tongue1:06:20 The Power of Body Language1:13:34 If You Want to Be Influential, You Need to Do This1:14:32 How to Interact Online1:19:45 Our Identity Stops Us From Growing1:21:37 Accents and How to Correct Them1:25:06 There Are No Limits to What You Can Do1:29:21 How to Deal With Bullies1:33:27 How to Start a Powerful Conversation With Someone1:37:53 Ads1:39:57 Small Talk1:42:18 What to Do If People Interrupt You at Work?1:44:58 Why You Should Mimic People's Body Language1:46:20 What Is F-O-R-D? Holding Conversations for Longer1:52:15 Are There Real Introverts and Extroverts?1:53:13 Social Anxiety1:55:19 Contextual Confidence2:01:39 I Do It All for My Son2:04:57 My Parents Gave Up Their Money to Become Monks2:11:37 The Endless Pursuit of More2:20:23 What Is One Thing You Know Is True Even If You Can't Prove It?Follow Vinh:Instagram - https://g2ul0.app.link/gTz0zXL4xRb YouTube - https://g2ul0.app.link/gTL4XuN4xRb Website - https://g2ul0.app.link/owpA9uP4xRb Vinh’s Free Communication Resources -  https://gifts.vinhgiang.com/doac Watch the episodes on Youtube - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACEpisodes My new book! 'The 33 Laws Of Business & Life' is out now - https://g2ul0.app.link/DOACBook Get your hands on the Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards here: https://bit.ly/conversationcards-mpFollow me:https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKbSponsors:Shopify - https://shopify.com/bartlettPerfectTed - https://www.perfectted.com with code DIARY40 for 40% offWHOOP - https://JOIN.WHOOP.COM/CEO Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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