You know what prevents people from being truly happy?... - Deepstash

You know what prevents people from being truly happy? Obsession with other people's opinions. You like your job, but friends and family find it useless and uncool. You like a man, but your girlfriends are turning their noses in contempt. You like putting jam on your meatballs but your family finds it weird. These situations are bound to make us feels completely uncomfortable. And in 8 out of 10 cases we give up on what we actually like.

Advice from the wise: ask yourself what you really need. Living in harmony with your inner self - that's the secret of true happiness.

Remember: others' approval or disapproval is just smoke on the water. The weather changes and it appears, yet with the slightest blow of the wind it sways and disappeared. Someone else's opinion is subjective and does not play any role in your fate.

Free your self-esteem from the obsession with the opinion of others. Only happiness and inner peace can really help you succeed. And happiness and inner peace come to those who stay true to themselves!

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