The Internet has sold us a great lie — you can do anything. Information is everywhere. Pick up your phone, type a few words, and you're instantly an expert. But can you apply this knowledge effectively?Most people think they can. If you know how something works, surely you can replicate it, right?Wrong!

The Internet's Big Lie

Knowing something doesn't guarantee success. On the contrary, you may overestimate your knowledge. You may find unexpected obstacles. Plus, numerous variables could cause you to deviate from the solution.AI changes that. It doesn't just offer solutions — it gives step-by-step guidance. It stays by your side, anticipates obstacles, and taps into an endless array of resources.Yet most people misuse AI. They enter vague, generic prompts and receive predictable answers. But today, I've prepared five powerful prompts for you. And I promise, they will change your life.

AI Can Guide You Step-by-Step

I started using ChatGPT like all of you.When ChatGPT launched, I was curious but skeptical. Initially, it felt predictable, useful mainly for debugging code (I’m a developer) . But while I was having fun, ChatGPT was growing. I could read one book in a week; it could read millions. And today, it’s one of the biggest encyclopedias in the world.Yet, this much knowledge is difficult to address. Many times, it will guess your answer. But you must share a detailed context if you need something specific. And, with enough context, it could help you fix your life, one chat at a time.

How I started using ChatGPT

Currently, I have over 300 chats on ChatGPT. I deleted most of them, but these are important.<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">I use it to plan new projects and software architectures.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">I use it to improve my life.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">I use it to brainstorm ideas and analyze my articles' performance.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">I am also using it to create my first board game with my girlfriend.</li></ul>It became my low-cost assistant. And today, I want to share a few of my most impactful chats with it.

How I Use ChatGPT

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I started to think about my finances before I even got my first salary. And when I did, a good chunk went into my first investment fund. I knew the importance of compound interest — the earlier you start, the better. So, I started as early as I could.But the problem with starting early is that you make a lot of mistakes. So I made them. I invested in a service that took 1% of my total investment a month. In the beginning, that wasn’t a lot. But I kept investing, and it became a lot.

1 — The Money Map (1)

So, how did I fix my finances? ChatGPT did it for me. It was enough to share my money allocation , and it told me how much potential I was wasting. Also, it shared a 10-week plan to improve my situation, with tasks for each week.Do you want to try it? Here’s the prompt I used.

1 — The Money Map (2)

I am Cosmin and I am almost 30 years old. Act as a certified financial planner and help me improve my finances. Build a zero-based budget for my XXX monthly income. Include essentials, discretionary spending, and three saving goals (emergency fund, vacation, and retirement).Before starting, ask all the questions you need to assess my current situation. Then, I would like an overview of my gains and expenses and a step-by-step guide to improve my financial habits.

I used to spend hours reading about my dreams and how I could achieve them. When I started writing, I read countless articles on writing, editing, and promoting. But I had a hard time practicing what I read.The same happened to all my dreams. When I wanted something, I searched for how-to guides and suggestions. But I never followed those lessons.

2 — The Dream Roadmap (1)

With ChatGPT, it felt different. The steps were the same, but I could change them in real-time and customize them according to my needs. Here’s the prompt I use to set up all my dreams. Then, I usually create a project or a custom GPT with all the data inside this chat so I can use it to ask further questions.

2 — The Dream Roadmap (2)

Act as my dream architect. My goal is to XXX, but I don’t know how to start. I want you to outline milestones for every quarter and suggest actionable monthly steps to keep me on track. Your job will be complete once I have the detailed plan for the first year of work.Before starting, please ask the questions you need to assess my current knowledge and situation. I have limited time to work on this project, around X hours a day. So, keep this in consideration.

In the last few weeks, I had to prepare for a technical interview for a big project. Usually, this isn’t a problem. But this time it’s different because I know it will define my career.I want to go there with confidence. I want to master all the things I know. So, I used ChatGPT as a studying buddy — and it was great.

3 — The Studying Buddy (1)

Two weeks ago, I set it up. I gave it a list of topics I needed to review, and we started, one topic at a time. But what surprised me the most was its ability to understand my situation. I didn’t ask, but it provided tips and best practices I should share with my interviewer to make a good impression.Here’s the prompt I used.

3 — The Studying Buddy (2)

Be my personal study coach. In X weeks, I have a technical interview on TOPIC, and I want to make a good impression. Here is a list of topics I should master.[LIST OF TOPICS]First, prepare an X-day learning plan that includes daily concepts and spaced repetition questions. Then, explain these topics one by one. After each session, I will share all my doubts. Then, you will prepare a closing questionnaire to assess my preparation.

Streaks are the key to any habit. But keeping a streak is challenging.At first, you are excited about your new habit. If it’s something new, you may want to do it every day. And you may keep your streak for a few days. But there’s a threshold in any habit when most people quit.

4 — The Habit Streak Builder (1)

It’s not something you decide to do. It just happens. You skip one day. No big deal, you think. Then you skip again, and again. Soon, you realize you’re off track — but you lack a clear plan to recover.But that’s where ChatGPT shines — it can help you recover from negative streaks and spot challenges in time.

4 — The Habit Streak Builder (2)

I always wanted to XXX, but I often failed because of [reasons]. So, from now on, you should become my habit-building coach.Every morning, I will give you updates on my streak. Use that data to understand if there are potential issues incoming. Share statistics of my progress and the goals I will achieve if I keep going.If I missed a day, diagnose the problem by asking targeted questions. Then, help me get back on track with a detailed plan.

How many times have you made a decision based on your guts?Sometimes it works. Most times, it sucks.But you don’t have to do that anymore. With ChatGPT, you can build a decision-maker that can compare anything from ideas to products.

5 — The Decision Maker (1)

I use it at work when I need to build a new software architecture. Usually, every new project has requirements I may have never seen before. So, I always start a new decision-maker chat and ask it to compare my architectures. Most times, I will come up with a mixed solution that works better.Here’s the prompt:

5 — The Decision Maker (2)

I must decide which of these solutions/products is better. Help me summarize the options below with their potential issues and strengths. If necessary, put everything in a SWAT table. Also, give me the worst-case scenario I could face with both options.If applicable, suggest one low-risk experiment I use to test my decision. Then, write a final review of what you think would be best.(Option 1) (Option 2)

We entered the AI era, but nobody taught us how to use it. We prompt ChatGPT, Gemini, and Claude every day. But do we ask the right questions?Asking ChatGPT the altitude of Mount Everest is not a clever way of using it. It may have been a few months ago, but not anymore. Now, AI can think of complex solutions. It doesn’t give generic answers anymore — it has become specific.Personal finance, self-improvement, habit building — it can help you with everything. Type the right prompt, and it may change your life.

The Challenge of The Week

Pick one of the five prompts I shared above and customize it with your data and goals. Give ChatGPT the data to help you solve your problems. Ask it to provide clear and actionable plans you can start using today and see what happens.﻿Which prompt will you try first? Hit reply and let me know.

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These 5 ChatGPT prompts will instantly transform your life. Use them to master money, goals, learning, habits, and decisions.

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5 ChatGPT Prompts That Will Instantly Transform Your Life

The 5 a.m. club is a myth. It has been a great marketing campaign. It convinced thousands of people to wake up earlier. But guess what?Waking up before sunrise won’t magically fix your life. It won’t make you more focused, disciplined, or successful. But for some reason, everyone on the internet seems obsessed with early wake-up times. And too many feel like failures because they can’t do it.Here’s the sad truth (if you hoped you found a solution to your problems) — it doesn’t work.

The 5 a.m. Club Myth

I’ve tried to join the 5 a.m. club many times, but it sucked. I was exhausted early in the evening. I couldn’t pass the time with my friends and girlfriend. I hated it. But most of all, I wasn’t any more productive.Unfortunately, the 5 a.m. club doesn’t work. You don’t need to change when you wake up, but what you do after. A chaotic morning sets the tone for a chaotic day. But a calm, focused morning can push you past the finish line, without needing to rise before the sun.Here are eight high-impact tweaks that helped me take control of my mornings — and can help you win yours.

Should you wake up earlier?

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The first thought that hits you in the morning isn’t helpful — that’s a fact.When you wake up, you’re craving two things: dopamine or confirmation . You will probably think you are behind and have too much to do. And you will search for confirmation of that. Or you may take your phone and start scrolling to wake up with a dopamine boost. But that’s not helpful.Instead of letting those thoughts spin all day, dump them.

1 — The 5-Minutes Mind Dump (1)

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Keep a notepad next to your bed. </li><li class="ql-align-justify">Write everything on your mind as soon as you wake up (tasks, worries, random thoughts).</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Don’t censor yourself — you have to empty your brain.</li></ul>You will feel lighter and more focused if you do.

1 — The 5-Minutes Mind Dump (2)

I used to write to-do lists all day, but they are disguised traps.I remember starting with personal growth. A few articles in, and I was already a to-do list expert. But I used to write too many useless activities only for the pleasure of checking them quickly. My lists were long, but not effective. They were a mix of taking out the rubbish and writing an article — two different priorities. (TLDR: I prioritize writing, but it doesn’t mean my home stinks! I take out the rubbish when it’s full.)

2 — The 3-Item Rule (1)

In the last few years, I replaced long to-do lists with something better — the three-item rule.What does that mean?Every day, I choose only three tasks that matter, and these become my daily mission. If I can achieve more than that, it’s a good extra. But if I can’t, it’s still good.

2 — The 3-Item Rule (2)

Try it yourself:<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Write your three most important tasks the night before. </li><li class="ql-align-justify">Review them first thing in the morning.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Attack them before distractions steal your day.</li></ul>At the end of the week, you will have 21 more wins under your belt.

2 — The 3-Item Rule (3)

You know you've lost when you check your phone in the first 10 minutes of the day. I’ve <a href="https://cosmopolitanmindset.substack.com/p/youre-addicted-and-you-dont-even-know-it">stressed it long enough </a>now.The problem is, you will probably do it. I do it all the time because having breakfast alone is sad, and we often need a companion. But the issue arises when you can’t stop scrolling — that’s when all plans go to hell.

3 — The Dopamine Delay (1)

Dopamine spikes train your brain to be reactive instead of focused. You react to a new email, a message, or a social media notification. But you never think of the tasks you delayed all morning. And that’s a little harder to undo later.<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Use a physical alarm clock if you can’t stop checking your phone.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Leave it in another room or on airplane mode for a few hours.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Stay offline for the first 60 minutes of your day. </li></ul>You must control your attention before the world steals it.

You don’t have to wait until 5 p.m. to move your body. On the contrary, you'd better start with that.A few years ago, I started running daily to lose some weight, and I noticed something interesting:<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Running in the evening is harder. I was already tired from my daily tasks. So, I would skip more frequently.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">In the morning, on the other hand, it’s harder to start. Yet, the benefits I got from moving my body will hook me.</li></ul>

4 — The Morning Movement (1)

Early exercise gives you a boost of energy. But you will also feel lighter because you won’t have to think about doing exercise all day.<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Do some stretching, yoga, or a short walk immediately after waking up.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Avoid screens until after you’ve moved.</li></ul>Motion drives momentum.

4 — The Morning Movement (2)

Stop making someone else’s morning productive!When you spend the first 30 minutes of your day reacting to other people’s needs, you’ve given your time away before it’s even started. So, block the emails, DMs, and family chats. If they have an emergency, they will call you. Otherwise, it’s your me-time.

5 — The First 30 Minutes (1)

My first 30 minutes in the morning define my day. If I wake up and have breakfast in front of the computer, I might spend the morning watching useless videos. And, sometimes, I do it deliberately (on weekends). But on weekdays, I always try to plan my day before it starts.<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Track how you currently spend your first hour. </li><li class="ql-align-justify">Identify one useless or draining habit.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Replace it with something intentional: reading, writing, or planning.</li></ul>

5 — The First 30 Minutes (2)

You are not lazy — your environment makes you so.How are you supposed to work if your desk is cluttered? Your kitchen is messy, but you still want to cook healthy food in the morning. How much more time do you lose? Your clothes aren’t ready. Here’s another 15 minutes, at least.

6 — The Environment Preparation (1)

You can’t wake up like this. Your brain will burn energy on useless decisions before you even start the day. You’ll be surprised by how much time you can save by planning the day before.<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Lay out your clothes the night before.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Clean your work area. </li><li class="ql-align-justify">Prep your breakfast or coffee ahead of time.</li></ul>Your environment should pull you into focus, not push you away from it.

6 — The Environment Preparation (2)

I drink a lot of coffee, even though I have tried to quit many times. I get one as soon as I wake up. My body doesn’t need it, but I do it anyway. Then, I take another during my morning break, and another in the afternoon.But guess what? I hardly need any of those coffee shots. I need more hydration.

7 — The Water Necessity (1)

Overnight, your body loses water. And starting the day with coffee dehydrates you further — it creates a quick energy spike, that’s true, but it crashes fast. So, how do you fix that and still drink your morning coffee, if you wish?<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Put a full glass of water next to your bed. </li><li class="ql-align-justify">Drink it before anything else.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Wait 30–45 minutes before having caffeine.</li></ul>

7 — The Water Necessity (2)

Most people start racing as soon as they wake up. But their calendar, inbox, and group chats pull them away from their focus.If you lose focus on hundreds of inputs as you wake up, you need an anchor that brings you back. You need something that pulls you out of the downward spiral. And it can be anything, from a recollecting moment to an exercise or journaling habit.<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Pick one habit that makes you feel grounded: journaling, walking, reading, meditating.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Do it every morning — even for just 5 minutes.</li></ul>

8 — The Morning Anchor

You don’t need to wake up earlier to make your dreams come true. You need to wake up better.Over the last few years, I tried many morning routines. Some of them worked, and some of them were only myths. They all left me with an idea I can’t get out of my mind — any morning routine is good until it doesn’t steal your time. So, here’s what I challenge you to do this week:

Pick three of these eight tweaks. Start them tomorrow morning and stick with them for the next 7 days.How much calmer do you feel? How much more did you get done?[DOWNLOAD THE<a href="https://cosmopolitanmindset.substack.com/p/upgrade-your-morning"> INFOGRAPHIC</a> (free for the first 30 days)]Which tweak are you starting tomorrow? Let me know! I will try my best to answer all of you!

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Upgrade Your Morning: 8 High-Impact Tweaks to Start Winning Your Day

You think your brain is helping you focus, but it’s not. Your brain lies to you. It lies every day. It tells you a task will only take 10 minutes. It convinces you to stay on a project you should have dropped months ago. It keeps feeding you dopamine with every meaningless notification. And you believe it.It’s not your fault — you have always lived with that voice in your brain that tells you what to do. But what if you could see through those lies?Here are seven hidden biases that sabotage your focus and kill your progress. But they aren’t productivity hacks — they are mental upgrades.

Your Brain Doesn't Want to Help

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When was the last time you tried to estimate a task?It will take one hour, you thought. But then, three hours passed by, and you were still there. That’s the planning fallacy.I learned to deal with it last year, when I became a team leader. I had to plan many tasks, but I didn’t want to look like I was wasting time, so my estimations were short. And after a few weeks, I had to work overtime to recover.

1 — The Planning Fallacy (1)

Our intrinsic optimism is the problem (I never thought I would blame optimism one day, but I have to). Your brain always imagines the best-case scenario and ignores all possible delays. It ignores all the problems that might occur because you hope they won’t, or you don’t have enough expertise with that task. So, when it happens, the project collapses.

1 — The Planning Fallacy (2)

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Add 50% to your time estimate by default.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Track how long common tasks take.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Adjust based on data, not optimism.</li></ul>Pick 3 tasks this week. Write your time estimate. Then, track the real time and compare it.

How to Fix It

Unfinished tasks never disappear — they hover.Sometimes, they stay there for a night. You were too tired and delayed them to the next day. But in the morning, you finished them as soon as possible. And that’s great.But sometimes, they stay there forever. You were too busy the night before, but also the morning after and afternoon. You didn’t want to do those tasks, but you had to. And now, you're searching for anything else to do to look busy.Yet, those tasks keep part of your mind always lingering. They are like a background app draining your mental RAM. And your brain hates open loops.

2 — The Zeigarnik Effect

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Do a brain dump every evening.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Write every open task, big or small.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Externalize the loop — your brain relaxes once it’s on paper.</li></ul>Do a daily brain dumb. Keep a notepad nearby your bed and write everything you haven’t finished before going to bed.

You seek what you already believe — it’s not a bug in your head.<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">You follow people who agree with you.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">And you dismiss opinions that challenge you.</li></ul>We try to keep balance in our lives, and the confirmation bias is our greatest ally. But what happens when life always agrees with you? You don’t learn how to manage failures, and you never change. When you’re younger, you hate people who disagree with you. You think you’ll always be right and keep out whatever might break that balance. But as you grow up, you find value in other points of view, and that’s how you grow.

3 — The Confirmation Bias

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Ask yourself, “What if I’m wrong?”</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Seek arguments that are the opposite of your belief.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Use contradiction as a growth tool.</li></ul>Pick one assumption you’ve made this week and research the counterargument.

I love having many options because it makes me think I can choose what I want to do. But that’s only an illusion — you will always do the same things most of the time.Let’s say you have to buy a new T-shirt. You either:<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Buy the first thing you like. You will find what you want in the first 10 minutes but keep searching. Then, you will go back.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Don’t buy anything. You probably didn’t want that t-shirt but needed an excuse to have a <a href="https://cosmopolitanmindset.substack.com/p/youre-addicted-and-you-dont-even-know-it">boost of dopamine</a>. </li></ul>In both cases, you lost a lot of time. Your brain burned out from constant decision-making until it had had enough of it.

4 — The Choice Overload

<ul><li>Limit your choices.</li><li>Use fixed routines.</li><li>Always do your top 3 priorities first.</li></ul>List your three most important tasks the night before. Only do those until they're done.

There’s a diabolical trade you make every day that ruins your future, and you don’t even know it exists. You always trade delayed gratification for instant rewards. Now is always better than later. And you can’t stop rewarding yourself.You should read that book, but YouTube feels easier. You should write that email, but scrolling Instagram feels better. You need that dopamine boost. But that’s distracting you from your goals.Immediate rewards will always feel better than long-term ones. Otherwise, everybody will achieve their goals.

5 — The Present Bias

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Link small rewards to long-term goals.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Schedule temptation time.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Use short bursts of effort.</li></ul>Pick one long-term habit you want to build. Add a reward right after doing it.

I’ve already spent hours on it. I can’t quit now!How many times have you thought something like that? But it’s all in your brain. Of course, you can quit if you want. Sometimes, it’s even necessary to remain healthy. Yet, for some reason, we get hooked on everything that took us time. It’s like a long TV show you don’t want to end. It’s like a dream project — if you can’t make it work, you must let it go.Your brain wants past effort to feel justified. But sometimes, letting go saves more time than justifying your hopes and aspirations. And it hurts less.

6 — The Sunk Cost Fallacy

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Think about a project that took a lot ot fime. Would you start it again today?</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Focus on future value, not past cost.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Cut losses early.</li></ul>Think of one project dragging you down. Would you begin it today? If not, let it go.

You had a bad day, and you feel like a failure now. Is it fair?No, it’s not. I know it. You know it. But when we have to bring that knowledge into our lives, we fail miserably.The problem is that one bad moment outweighs ten good ones in our memory. That’s the availability heuristic. However, we forget bad memories faster than good ones. So, how can you use this knowledge to improve your life?<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Use the bad days as a baseline you don’t want to face again.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">And praise the good days as events you wish to replicate.</li></ul>

7 — The Availability Heuristic

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Track your progress weekly.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Use data, not memory.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Separate feeling unproductive from being unproductive.</li></ul>Write a quick log at the end of each day: What did you do? What went well?

Our brain is our greatest power. Yet, sometimes it works against us. It tricks us with motivation and confidence. But then, when we need discipline, it chickens out.Your brain is human — it hasn’t been designed for productivity. So, you have to outsmart the traps built into it to reach your goals.

Focus on one of the biases above. Track when it shows up this week and apply the fix. Train your brain to work for you, not against you.[DOWNLOAD THE <a href="https://cosmopolitanmindset.substack.com/p/outsmart-your-brain">FREE INFOGRAPHIC</a> (only for 30 days)]Which track hits you the hardest? Reply and let me know!

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You’re not tired.You’re not lazy.You’re not broken .You’re overdosed — and it’s killing your potential.

You Are Not Broken!

Every notification on your phone makes you glaze at the screen. It may be for an instant — a swipe, and you’re good. Or it may trigger a relapse of binge scrolling that takes away hours of your day. Every cheap snack, scroll and click it’s an instant dose of your artificial pleasure. Another hit of dopamine. Another reason why you’re life is slipping through your fingers.Where is your motivation? Where is your attention? They are gone, and you don’t even realize it happened.

The Danger of Notifications

Dopamine should reward us for our achievements. But what achievement did you receive the last time you ate half of that chocolate bar? You have to control your dopamine, or it will control you. You will love it — no doubt. But what will you have ten years from now besides a long streak of self-destruction?

Dopamine Should Reward Us

Dopamine is your brain’s motivator. It’s the chemical that pushes you to chase goals, crave rewards, and feel pleasure after an achievement.It sounds great, right?Well, it was great — before we engineered an environment that hijacks it 24/7.According to a 2020 study published in the Journal of Behavioral Addictions , heavy stimulation from digital devices creates similar dopamine patterns to drug addiction. Another Stanford study found that constant micro-doses of pleasure lower your baseline dopamine, meaning you feel less joy from real achievements.

What is Dopamine?

So, what does that mean?Your brain is short-circuiting. The things that once motivated you can’t even get through the noise anymore.Cheap rewards have overthrown real success, deep connections, and meaningful creation. And every fake dopamine hit buries you deeper.It’s time to detox. Here’s how.

Why You Desperately Need a Detox

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I’ve been having issues pursuing my online career in the last few days. And I’ve searched for a motivation behind this low desire.It’s not something rare in my routine. I often have periods where I am prolific and moments where I don’t write at all. But this time, it was different.I didn’t have the desire to succeed anymore. And that made me think — what if I am getting too many free pleasures?I’ve been in this market for a few years now, and I know dopamine can become a drug — so the alert triggered immediately. But still, I had to get out of that comfort zone, and it took me some time.

My Challenges with Dopamine Addiction

Enough about me. Let’s talk about you.If you’re still reading, the introduction probably caught your attention. You felt like I was talking about you. And that might be true — you’re not the only one experiencing these issues.Most people struggle with dopamine today because we lowered that baseline too much, and we need greater releases to feel good. But it’s time to invert that trend. It’s <a href="https://www.cosmopolitanmindset.com/30-day-dopamine-detox-the-complete-guide/">time to detox </a>and take back our motivation and drive.Here are six traps you want to avoid.

6 Dopamine Traps That Are Quietly Destroying You

There was a time when people thought cigarettes were harmless. But fast forward a few decades, and we realized we were paying to get sick.The same is happening with social media now.You think you’re connecting, but you’re not. You are feeding an addiction engineered to keep you stuck.You’ve got all your friends on TikTok and Instagram, I’m sure of that. But when was the last time you had a real conversation with them? (No, sending memes to each other doesn’t count.)

1 — Social Media: Scrolling Your Life Away

I’m not going to tell you to delete all social media apps for a month — that’s not how you fix an addiction. But you should limit the time you spend on social media.In the beginning, you will need support to block those apps. For example, I use Opal to block all social media between 9 AM and 5 PM. Then, you can bring back control over your side with small steps.Decide when to log in to an app and when to log out. Give yourself predefined slots of time in which you are allowed to use social media. And when time runs out, log out. This way, no notification will ever catch your attention.

What to do?

Do you feel sad?Here’s a burger, some fries, and a Coke.Do you feel better now? Of course, you do. But in 10 minutes you:<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">burned at least $10</li><li class="ql-align-justify">vanished a one-hour workout (if not even more)</li><li class="ql-align-justify">and lowered your dopamine levels again.</li></ul>That dopamine bomb provides some energy and clarity for a while. But then, it weighs over your belly as it does on your motivation. And all of that because of one impulsive meal.

2 — Fast Food: Instant Gratification on a Plate

Impulsive meals have been the reason I’ve been overweight all my life. I’m gluttonous, and I can’t control myself sometimes. But you won’t solve nerves and stress with a burger. So, why do we keep doing it?You may find <a href="https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-eating/why-do-i-eat-when-im-stressed#eating-when-stressed">different answers</a>. But, essentially, food provides a temporary sense of comfort and distraction. Also, when stressed, our body releases cortisol, which increases appetite and cravings for high-fat and sugary food.Yet, fast food and impulsive meals have one simple fix — only eat what you cook.If you didn’t make it, don’t eat it.It requires a lot of <a href="https://cosmopolitanmindset.substack.com/p/5-hidden-reasons-you-lack-discipline">discipline</a>, but it works!

You were going to relax for an hour. But five hours later, you’re still lying on the couch, wondering why real life feels so… flat.How many times did it happen?I experienced it for the first time when I finished How I Met Your Mother (my favorite show). I wanted to have more because my life wasn’t that awesome. And I didn’t realize the only way to have the same things was to go out and meet new people.The same thing might happen to you. When you binge-watch your favorite TV show or influencer, your brain is overfed but starting. And no amount of Netflix will fix it.

3 — Binge Streaming: The Death of Your Attention Span

Many influencers against binge-watching suggest limiting your consumption to one weekly episode. However, that seems too much of a change. And we all know small changes are the way to improve bad habits. So, what should you do?Start with one episode a day (maximum 1 hour).That should limit most of your consumption. But it’s still too stretched if you love watching movies with your partner or friends. So, we will add a second rule:You can watch longer movies, but only with another person — never alone.This way, consumption becomes intentional.

Ding — you look.Ping — you look again.Buzz — gotcha, you picked up your phone.<a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/parenting-neuroscience-perspective/202112/the-irresistible-pull-social-media">What is so irresistible </a>about the notifications on our phones?

4 — Notification Overload: Panic in Your Pocket (1)

There are many reasons why you do that:<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">you fear you will miss out on important communication (FOMO)</li><li class="ql-align-justify">you have trained your body to react to that kind of stimuli</li><li class="ql-align-justify">and it pushes dopamine into your body, of course.</li></ul>But every notification is a micro-anxiety attack. If you know it’s there, you have to check it. And until you do, your mind keeps coming back to it. Sometimes, even if there are no notifications, you check your phone to see if there’s anything new.This has to stop now! You can’t shock your brain like this every day.

4 — Notification Overload: Panic in Your Pocket (2)

I blocked all notifications since my first smartphone. And every time I visit my parents, I’m sick of the constant vibrations and sounds their phones make.How can you live like that?Turn off everything except phone calls because nothing is urgent anymore. And if something urgent does happen, people will call you.Block your Instagram, email, and even WhatsApp messages. Don’t worry — you won’t miss anything.

You may already have three pairs of sneakers. Yet, you will buy another one with the right promo.You didn’t need that ring light. You didn’t need that new gadget. You bought it because it didn’t cost much. In some cases, it did cost a lot, but you thought you needed it.Do you want to know a secret?You probably didn’t want most of those things. But you wanted the hit. You wanted to feel the micro-rush of dopamine when you clicked Buy Now. So you kept buying.

5 — Impulse Shopping: The Plastic Dopamine Card

I’ve been using a simple but efficient rule for a couple of years now:Delay any small buy for seven days and big buy for a month. If you still want it after that time, you can buy it.Now, small and big buys are relative — they depend on your salary. And you will for sure know what it means in your case.

Why do you need music on every walk or while you drive?Why do you listen to podcasts while cooking?You’re afraid of silence. Silence means you have to think, which is the opposite of a dopamine rush.When there’s noise, you keep your brain fed. It’s not hungry — it can’t be — because you keep feeding it emotions. But your dopamine threshold lowers, so you will always want more noise and less silence.

6 — Background Noise: Fear of Silence

Since I started working and had to commute daily, I always listened to music while going to work and back home. But a few mornings ago, I rediscovered the pleasure of silence.I was going to the gym, and I was sick of the same daily songs. So, I turned off the music and experienced the pleasure of driving. It was a short route, but I did it again. And then, I started doing it daily.Introduce a few minutes of silence in your daily routines. It could be during your commute to work or school or a relaxing walk at the end of the day. Silence everything — no phone, no headphones, no stimulation.

You’re not tired, lazy, or broken. But you may be addicted to dopamine. And it’s becoming a problem.Your motivation and productivity may drop for different reasons. Sometimes, they don’t even drop — it’s only <a href="https://cosmopolitanmindset.substack.com/p/toxic-productivity">your mind playing toxic tricks on you</a>. But if they do, you must save your brain before the world finishes frying it.You don’t need more hacks or apps. You need silence, hunger, and real rewards. You need to feel bored again — so you can remember what it’s like to truly want something. And then, get it!

This week, keep track of your dopamine rushes. How many times do you choose music over silence? How many times do you choose fatty or sugary threats, or binge-watch shows? Then, try to limit those things to two weeks. Will your productivity and motivation rise again?[DOWNLOAD THE <a href="https://cosmopolitanmindset.substack.com/p/youre-addicted-and-you-dont-even-know-it">FREE INFOGRAPHIC</a> (only for 30 days)]Let me know in the comments or by answering this email!

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It doesn’t matter how much you do — it will never be enough. I know you’ve had that thought at least once in your life. It’s painful. Feeling like you’re not (doing) enough is painful. Yet, it is the sickness of our society.Everyone works extra shifts to advance in their careers. Everyone is a side hustler. Everyone tries turning their passion into profit. But not everyone can do it, and that’s what keeps us hooked.

On Not Being Enough

We want to do more than anyone else. We chase higher heights and goals. But we often lose sight of where we started. We forget where we need right now.I’ve been there, and I still am.Toxic productivity sneaked into my routine as it does with everyone. It disguises itself as ambition. It tells you that working more means achieving more. But that’s a dangerous myth.If I work more than you, I won’t achieve more — I will burn out faster. If you work more than me, you won’t achieve more — you will give up sooner. Toxic productivity is inside each of us, but we can escape it together.

How Toxic Productivity Sneaks In Your Routine

There are millions of success stories on social media. And each tries to sell you the same thing — you are not doing enough.Do you want to get in shape? Workout more.Do you want to become a successful writer? Write more.Do you want to become an influencer? Publish more.

1 — Trade overwhelm for boundaries (1)

When did we decide to trade quality for quantity? Nobody knows, but we did it. And now we have to follow the trend of doing more of everything.That’s not healthy — it’s toxic. You can’t continue to push yourself to do more every day. It can happen once in a while — it’s normal. But where do you set the boundary? When would you have enough?

1 — Trade overwhelm for boundaries (2)

Trade your need to always do more for clear boundaries.Instead of doing more, focus intensely for short periods. For example, you can use the Pomodoro Technique to help you stay on track.<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Work for 25 minutes, then rest for 5 (small cycle).</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Repeat the small cycle four times (medium cycle). Then, take a bigger break.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Repeat the medium cycle four times, and you’re done for the day.</li></ul>After those eight hours, keep any work matter out of sight. You’ll find you’re more productive like this.

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I’ve had days when every new task was a higher priority. Everyone was coming to me with a new problem to solve. And ridiculously enough, each problem was larger than the last one. Or, at least, that’s what it seemed.But here’s a secret — every problem is the highest priority to the person who raises it.

2 — Trade chaos for scheduled work (1)

Suppose you are managing a tech project:<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">The marketing team will think approving the promo copy is the highest priority.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">The development team will disagree and hope you will prioritize the debugging session.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Finance will immediately raise their hands — when will you approve the budget, they ask.</li></ul>But guess who’s making the final decision? You are.You are the one who knows (or should know) what matters most. And if you let them take advantage of you, the project will suffer.

2 — Trade chaos for scheduled work (2)

A project manager will always plan the month to see their project succeed. In the same way, you should at least plan your day.Spend five minutes every morning to write your top three priority tasks.What is the most important activity you have to finish today? Give it the attention it deserves and ignore everything else until it’s finished. Then, you can jump to the next task, and so on.

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