Mastering conversations is a skill that can significantly improve various aspects of your life, including <ul><li>Careers </li><li>Relationships Confidence levels and </li><li>Even overall life circumstances. </li></ul>Learning how to hold a conversation well, you can get ahead of 90% of people. The goal of improving communication is to reach a point where <ul><li>People will want to talk to you</li><li>Remember you</li><li>You will feel more confident </li><li>Receive the respect and opportunities you deserve.</li></ul>

Mastering Conversations

Not everyone is a natural conversationalist and many people struggle with different aspects of communication. Their are several common problems faced in conversations and practical, psychology-backed ways to overcome them, which contribute to the process of mastering this skill.Here are the problems and their corresponding solutions:<a href="https://elevatedpath.substack.com/p/the-art-of-habits?r=5i6fxw">The Art of Habits Guide</a> (Its FREE)

Problems & Solutions For Mastering Conversations

This often stems from psychological reasons like cognitive overload due to nervousness or perfection paralysis, where the fear of not saying the "right thing" makes it difficult to continue the conversationSolutions:<ul><li>Use anchor points or safe topics you can return to. The FORD framework (Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams) provides four areas to ask questions around.</li><li>Keep a list of conversation prompts mentally ready to ignite deeper, more memorable conversations when nobody knows what to talk about. </li></ul>These can also be used to start conversations

Not knowing what to say or running out of things to say

Many people are taught how to listen politely but not how to end conversations, which can lead to the conversation dragging or feeling repetitive, potentially causing resentment or fatigue.Solutions:<ul><li>Have a few graceful exit lines prepared, such as needing to go to the washroom, mentioning mingling with others at an event, or politely suggesting you don't want to keep the other person.</li><li>Remember that you do not owe anybody unlimited access to your time or energy. A good conversation is measured by how pleasant and respectful it felt, not its length.</li></ul>

Not knowing how to exit a conversation gracefully

This can make you feel limited, self-conscious, and embarrassed due to the fear of judgment regarding grammar, pronunciation, and vocabulary. This fear can overwhelm the brain, making communication difficult.Solutions:<ul><li>Focus on clarity, not perfection. </li><li>Impactful communication doesn't require fancy words or complicated sentences as long as your point is clear.</li><li>Practice speaking regularly, read books, and watch content in the language to build vocabulary. Confidence in communication comes from connection, not perfection</li></ul>

Not having a good hold over the language

Both are extremes that disrupt the conversation flow and can make interactions feel imbalanced, awkward, or emotionally disconnected.Oversharing might stem from a desire to bond quickly, while undersharing often comes from fear or shyness.Solutions: <ul><li>Mirror your communication to match the other person's energy and level of vulnerability.</li><li>Use the sliding door approach by offering open-ended cues about a potential tangent.﻿</li><li>Share to connect, not to unload feelings or keep everything inside. Ask yourself why the conversation is important and how best to connect.﻿</li></ul>

Oversharing or undersharing

This is dominating the dialogue, often without bad intent, but it leaves others feeling unheard and invisible.Solutions:<ul><li>Regularly check your balance between speaking and listening.</li><li>Invite others to chime in.</li><li>Use the loop back rule after sharing something to ask others for their experience (e.g., "What about you?").</li><li>Avoid turning every story into a personal competition; focus on showing interest rather than trying to one-up others. Lead with curiosity, focusing on being interested instead of trying to be interesting.</li></ul>

Monopolizing the Conversation

This occurs when you miss non-verbal signals that indicate the other person is losing interest, feeling overwhelmed, or unsure how to respond, often becauseyou are caught up in your own thoughts.Solutions:<ul><li>Tune into body language and tone, watching for signs like glancing away, fidgeting, lack of eye contact, short replies, or a shift in posture. These are cues to adjust the conversation or exit gracefully.</li><li>Listen for conversational reciprocity, noting if the other person is matching your energy and enthusiasm and asking questions back. Develop your social radar﻿.</li></ul>

Misreading social cues

This happens when something said hits a nerve, often due to personal emotional baggage or feeling misunderstood or threatened. This shifts the dynamic from listening to understand to reactingSolutions:<ul><li>Take a pause before reacting, perhaps by taking a few breaths.</li><li>Ask for clarity instead of immediately assuming bad intent (e.g., "Can you explain further?").</li><li>Remember that you always have the power to choose how you respond.</li><li>It's okay to wrap up the conversation if it becomes too charged, suggesting returning to it later.</li></ul>

Getting emotionally triggered or defensive

This quiet fear often stems from judging yourself too harshly or comparing your "behind the scenes" to others' "highlight reels". People often remember how you made them feel more than specific witty things you said.Solutions:<ul><li>Stop trying to be interesting and focus on being interested; cultivate curiosity about others.</li><li>Ask questions that go beyond the surface.</li><li>Be the most engaged person in the room.</li><li>Consume interesting content (books, articles, videos) to have more things to talk about.</li></ul>

Feeling boring or not interesting enough

Passion can sometimes turn into intensity (speeding up, raising voice) without realizing it, potentially overwhelming or offending the other person.Solutions:<ul><li>Pause between sentences and take deep breaths to give your words more weight and allow the other person time to absorb them.</li><li>Try to match the other person's energy.</li><li>Acknowledge your excitement if you notice yourself becoming intense (e.g., "Sorry, I get excited about this topic")</li></ul>

Getting too excited or aggressive while making a point

This passive stance often stems from a fear of rejection masked as indifference, particularly in people used to being approached, preventing real connection.Solutions:<ul><li>Flip the script and see initiating as a power move demonstrating leadership and social fluency.</li><li>Simple openers are enough; the goal is to be open to having a conversation, not necessarily to be impressive.</li></ul>

Ego getting in the way (e.g., not initiating conversations)

Good conversations can change careers, relationships, confidence levels, and even lives overnight. By improving your communication and mastering conversations, your communication will not just improve but will transform. As a result, people will want to talk to you, they will remember you, and you will finally start getting the respect and the opportunities that you have always deserved

Benefits of Good Conversation

You can get ahead of 90% of people in life, just by learning how to hold a conversation well. I’ve seen good conversations change careers, relationships, and confidence levels overnight. But I also understand that it’s not easy. So in this video, I am going to break down each of these problems one by one and I’ll give you  practical, psychology-backed ways to overcome them and thereby improve your communication.

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00:00 Intro 
01:20 Running out of things to say
06:07 Exiting a conversation 
08:17 Language barrier 
10:43 Oversharing or Under sharing
13:51 Monopolizing the convo
16:00 Misreading social cues
18:10 Getting emotionally triggered
20:37 Feeling Boring
22:19 Disinterest in the conversation
23:13 Getting tired easily
25:10 Fear of offending others
27:16 Getting too excited
28:32 Being too egoistical

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Freelancing is described as an emerging and aspirational space, particularly for young people in Tier 2 and Tier 3 cities in India. It's part of the gig economy, where individuals hop from one project to another and lack a predictable income like a salary. Instead, they must find projects, get paid, and manage their finances themselves

Freelancing

Freelancers are often not considered "respectable".People to view themselves as businesses, not just isolated workers, emphasizing that someone earning ₹3 lakh per month and supporting their family is no less respectable than a well-regarded bank manager. This shift in mindset is crucial.

Perception problem surrounding freelancing

There are two main paths for growth after starting as a freelancer: Continuing to evolve as a better freelancer or building an agency.

Paths for Growth: Freelancer vs. Agency

Building an agency is as very risky. It involves significant administrative burden, expenses (like salaries and real estate), and a constant pressure to secure work to cover costs. Agencies can easily take on too much work and recruit based on peak loads, leading to difficulties and potential losses when work decreases, as it's hard to lay off employees quickly. While it can lead to different kinds of opportunities and scaling, it moves the individual away from the core execution, which might not suit everyone.

Building An Agency

The freelancer path to growth requires a "very, very hard thing" that many people cannot do: dropping a client. To grow income and level up, a freelancer needs to free up time, which often means letting go of existing clients, even if it temporarily reduces income. This is seen as taking "one step back for two steps forward". The newly available time shouldn't immediately be used to find new clients, but rather to re-assess and upgrade skills.

The Freelancer Path

There are several key strategies for success in freelancing:<ol><li>Choosing a Domain</li><li>Getting Started and Broadcasting Work</li><li>Client Acquisition</li><li>Pricing</li><li>Charging Premium</li><li>Client Service</li><li>Getting Feedback and Testimonials</li><li>Scaling as a Freelancer</li></ol>

Key Strategies for Freelancing Success

Focus on creative free-lancing services. These services are in high demand because every company is becoming a "media company" and increasing content creation drastically. Domains are categorized by their barrier to entry:<ul><li>High Barrier</li><li>Medium Barrier</li><li>Low Barrier</li></ul>

1. Choosing a Domain

These services typically require significant capital investment or prior experience/trust before a client will hire you. It's difficult to get initial freelance gigs directly.Examples of Domains/Services:Performance Marketing, Video ProductionPotential Income/Growth:These can be high-paying servicesMight require starting with a job in the field to gain experience and trust before freelancing

High Barrier To Entry

These fields require renting equipment, convincing clients to invest more, or collaborating with others. The initial hurdle is higher than low barrier but lower than high barrier.Examples of Domains/Services:Video Production, CinematographyPotential Income/Growth: These fields have high potential. Video editing for podcasts and ads shows significant price increases.Suitable for individuals who can potentially access or rent necessary equipment or have connections.

Medium Barrier to Entry

These are services that require minimal initial investment beyond a phone and internet. They are presented as the most accessible starting point.Examples of Domains/Services:Content Writing, Designing, Video Editing, Social Media Management, LinkedIn Management.Potential Income/Growth: Starting rates can be around ₹1000-₹2000 per social media design, potentially earning ₹40,000-₹80,000 per month. Video editing can start lower and scale significantly with experience and complexity (e.g., podcasts, ads).Ideal for those with limited capital but access to a phone and internet

Low Barrier to Entry

Start with small projects, even for family or friends. Be "shameless" about broadcasting your work. Share everything you do on all possible platforms (LinkedIn, Facebook, Twitter, WhatsApp, etc.). You never know where your first opportunities will come from. Good work coupled with broadcasting leads to referrals.

2. Getting Started and Broadcasting Work

Focus on addressing client objections. A primary objection is often wanting to see previous work. A powerful technique is to take a potential client's existing work (like a LinkedIn post, thumbnail, or video) and show them how you would make it better. When sending your portfolio, make it extremely easy to access (e.g., directly clickable links in the email, curated links, attach your best work first). Write "hard to ignore" subject lines for emails, like "I Have Made Something For You"

3. Client Acquisition

Understanding the market is crucial. Join communities of freelancers (like WhatsApp groups) and directly ask others about rates for specific services. Research on platforms like Upwork can provide additional data points and help determine a broad range. Once you have a range, honestly assess your own portfolio and skill level to position yourself within that range. While starting cheap can help build a portfolio, avoid undervaluing yourself; the goal is to eventually charge market rate and then premium. Pricing requires continuous attention and adjustments based on market conditions.

4. Pricing

Merely doing "good work" allows you to charge market rate. To charge premium, you must go "above and beyond". This involves incremental efforts that yield exponential benefits. Examples include adding value beyond the core service, like understanding a client's broader business needs (e.g., how web copy affects sales), or performing small, thoughtful actions that make the client feel valued and supported.

5. Charging Premium

This is emphasized as the "actual work" of freelancing, even more important than acquisition and selling. The core principle is to make the client experience "frictionless", similar to a five-star hotel. Practical aspects include:<ul><li>Proactive Communication: Reply promptly to client messages (not 24 hours later). </li><li>Onboarding Process: Have a clear process to inform the client about how you work and what to expect.</li><li>Educate the Client: Don't assume the client understands technical details or industry processes. Explain things clearly without jargon.</li><li>Manage Expectations</li></ul>

6. Client Service

Ask clients for "feedback" rather than just "testimonials". Ask specific questions like <ul><li>"What did I do right?"</li><li>"What did I do wrong?",</li><li>"How can I make it better?</li></ul>to get actionable insights. Make it easy for busy clients to provide feedback, perhaps by drafting a message for them to approve. If the feedback is positive, ask permission to use it on your website or social media.

7. Getting Feedback and Testimonials

Once time is freed up by dropping a client, focus on improving your skill and building a "T-shape skill". This means having deep expertise in your core service (e.g., editing) but also gaining a broader understanding of related areas that impact the client's goals (e.g., an editor understanding social media growth, hook writing, or basic design principles).Understand the impact of your work from the client's perspective (e.g. increases views, or drives sales)Incorporate this understanding into your pitches. Growth requires patience and strategic upgrading of skills.

8. Scaling as a Freelancer:

Instead of just listing "bad clients," define what makes a good client. A red flag is a client who expects a "perfect imperfect relationship" – they are disorganized or late but expect perfection from you. Other signs include poor briefing, expecting immediate results while delaying payment, and excessive micromanagement, which shows a lack of trustA framework is suggested to evaluate clients based on five criteria (CRMBV)

Identifying Good (vs. Bad) Clients

<ul><li>C - Creativity: Does working with them allow you to do highly creative work that enhances your portfolio?</li><li>R - Relationship: Is there a strong relationship, potentially built over time? Sometimes you might do a favor for someone who supported you early on.</li><li>M - Money: Do you need the money from this project?</li><li>B - Brand Building: Will associating with this client elevate your brand or signal your capabilities (like working with a big name)?</li><li>V - Visibility: Will the client provide visibility or credit for your work (e.g., mentioning you in captions)?</li></ul>

CRMBV - Evaluate Clients

A client matching three or more criteria is considered great. Two out of five is decent. One out of five is acceptable only if you need the money. A client who matches none (no creative freedom, no money, no relationship, no brand lift, no visibility) should be avoided. This framework provides a clearer way to assess a client's potential value rather than just focusing on their flaws, as "humans are imperfect" and most clients will have some issues.

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In this episode, Ayush opens up about everything, how to start freelancing with zero capital, land high-paying clients without a fancy portfolio, and the brutal truths no one tells you about the creator economy. He also breaks down the biggest scams in the industry, the psychology of pricing, and why most freelancers fail to scale.

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25:25 - Put yourself out there 
29:46 - Which freelance domains can you build a sustainable business in? 
38:04 - How much can freelancers earn in the creator economy?
48:20 - How to spot fake freelancers
1:00:48 - Negative perceptions about freelancers
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1:42:05 - How to price your services as a freelancer 
1:49:05 - Adding value beyond deliverables
1:55:13 - The harsh truth about freelancers 1:59:56 -  What is effective client servicing?
2:09:50 - How do you grow as a freelancer?
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If you keep trying to change what you do without changing who you are, you’ll fail every time.Before you act, define your identity.Not “I want to write.”“I’m a writer.”Not “I want to get fit.”“I am someone who trains daily.”When your identity aligns with your actions, the friction disappears.You’re no longer “trying”—you’re simply being.Discipline becomes self-expression.

1. Identity First, Actions Second

Start small. Smaller than you think.<ul><li>200 words.</li><li>10 pushups.</li><li>5 minutes of reading.</li></ul>Momentum doesn’t come from willpower.It comes from motion.Two minutes removes resistance.And once you start, you often keep going.That’s how habits stack—and how resistance dies.Start tiny, win daily.

2. The Two-Minute Momentum Rule ⏳️

Your brain avoids pain more than it seeks pleasure.Use that.<ul><li>Tell your friends you’ll pay them $100 if you skip your habit.</li><li>Announce your 30-day commitment publicly.</li><li>Make quitting cost you something.</li></ul>Accountability isn’t about pressure—it’s about leverage.When the stakes are high, your brain will find a way.Because comfort is only tempting when there’s no cost to failure.

3. Set Painful Consequences

What gets measured gets managed.What gets reflected on gets internalized.<ul><li>Use a habit tracker.</li><li>Post progress updates.</li><li>Write nightly reflections in a journal.</li></ul>Not for clout—but for clarity.Consistency thrives in visibility.You’re no longer guessing—you’re watching yourself evolve.

4. Track Publicly, Reflect Privately

Repetition isn’t the enemy.It’s the gateway.Build a ritual around your habit:Same playlist. Same time. Same location.Turn the mundane into something sacred.Because if you can fall in love with boredom, you’ll outlast everyone chasing motivation.The work is the reward.

5. Ritualize Boredom

Most people quit because they think success should feel exciting.But mastery feels like this:<ul><li>Quiet.</li><li>Repetitive.</li><li>Unseen.</li></ul>If you can force consistency when it’s not fun,If you can trust small daily actions over dopamine-driven choices,If you can show up even when no one is watching—you win.Not immediately.Not overnight.But inevitably.Because success doesn’t happen in one defining moment.It happens in the decision to show up, again and again.Start today.Force consistency.Watch your identity catch up.

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Imagine two paths: The first offers immediate financial gratification but limited growth potential. The second presents initial challenges but unlimited possibilities. Which would you choose?Most people instinctively choose the first path, but here's the uncomfortable truth: working solely for money is one of the biggest mistakes you can make. Instead, focus on two crucial elements: skills and equity.Every self-made millionaire I know has prioritized skills and equity over immediate financial gain – it's the only way to build that kind of wealth.

1. Working Solely for Money: The Hidden Trap

In today's digital age, certain skills are in particularly high demand:<ul><li>Copywriting</li><li>Video editing</li><li>Coding</li></ul>The beautiful thing about these skills? There's a massive shortage of true experts. While many claim proficiency, 99% aren't meeting professional standards, creating enormous opportunities for those willing to master these crafts.

The Power of High-Income Skills

Picture this: cruising through Dubai in a yellow Lamborghini, dining at exclusive restaurants, living the "Instagram life." Sounds appealing, right? But here's the shocking reality: most people living these lifestyles are drowning in debt.Consider these sobering statistics:<ul><li>37% of Americans can't handle unexpected expenses over $400</li><li>39% worry about paying their bills</li><li>60% of American households can't afford a new car</li></ul>True wealth isn't about showing off – it's about building a strong foundation through appreciating assets like stocks, shares, crypto, and real estate.

2. The Luxury Lifestyle Trap

Even Elon Musk didn't do it alone. The success of the "PayPal Mafia" – the group of entrepreneurs who went on to found companies like YouTube, LinkedIn, and SpaceX – proves that collaboration trumps isolation every time.

3. The Solo Journey Myth

In today's world, we're bombarded with opinions and advice from every direction. The solution? Work backward from your end goal and only accept inputs that align with your destination. Quality over quantity isn't just a saying – it's a success strategy.

4. Information Overload: The Silent Progress Killer

Arrogance blinds you to the opportunities that could genuinely change your life.True wealth requires humility and an endless appetite for learning. Remember the iceberg principle: what you know is just the tip – the massive chunk of knowledge lies beneath the surface.

5. The Ego Trap

Life presents us with two tools: a magnifying glass and a mirror. The magnifying glass lets us focus on others and make excuses:<ul><li> "The system is rigged"</li><li>"I'm not rich enough to start"</li><li> "Life didn't give me the right opportunities"</li></ul>The mirror, however, focuses on what we can control – our thoughts and actions. Choose the mirror.

6. The Blame Game

Your comfort zone can become a self-imposed prison. According to studies, over half of Brits never leave their comfort zone, and 45% worry they'll regret this choice. The solution? Gradually expand your boundaries.Personal growth comes from pushing these boundaries. Whether it's starting a new business, traveling to unfamiliar places, or mastering new skills, each step outside your comfort zone opens new possibilities.

7. Comfort Zone Stagnation

Success isn't about following a perfect path – it's about avoiding the common pitfalls that derail most people's journeys. Start by examining your current trajectory:<ol><li>Are you building valuable skills, or just chasing quick money?</li><li>Are you investing in assets or trying to maintain appearances?</li><li>Have you surrounded yourself with the right people?</li><li>Are you taking responsibility for your journey?</li></ol>Remember, wealth isn't just about money – it's about creating value, continuous learning, and steady growth.

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We live in a world obsessed with quick fixes, but real wealth isn’t about winning the lottery or stumbling on a lucky break.It’s about smart, consistent decisions that compound over time.Here’s how the wealthy think and act differently:<a href="https://wealthoperators.substack.com/p/50-free-resources-to-master-money">Wealth Building Guide - 50+ FREE Resources on Money, Investing & Personal Finance. </a>(It's free)

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Most people don't realize luxury cars are wealth destruction machines.Did you know?Luxury cars lose about 60% of their value after just 5 years.Millionaires see cars differently. They:<ol><li>Buy reliable, used vehicles</li><li>Invest the difference in appreciating assets like stocks and real estate</li><li>Prioritize long-term wealth over short-term status</li></ol>

1. Don't Drive Your Wealth Away

The average millionaire saves and invests about 64% of their income.Never live bigger than your paycheck.Don't consume, instead, use your paycheck to invest for your future.Live like an undercover millionaire today to be a millionaire tomorrow.

2. The "Pay Yourself First" Principle

As your income grows, your savings rate should grow faster.You'll be tempted to upgrade everything—don't.Control your expenses before they control you.

3. Crush Lifestyle Creep

A degree is good, but your network is better.One of the greatest indicators of your future success is determined by the people who know you and trust you.Build and maintain meaningful relationships as early as possible.Your network is your net worth.

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If you've ever heard of the saying:"Don't put your eggs in 1 basket."Then you know that you shouldn't rely on just 1 income source.Start building multiple income streams today.

5. Multiple Income Streams Are Not Optional

Getting out of debt is:<ul><li>20% knowledge</li><li>80% a change in habit</li></ul>Changing your financial habits include:<ul><li>Earning more</li><li>Spending less</li><li>Investing more</li></ul>To live debt-free, you may have to adopt a lean life.

6. Avoid Bad Debt

63% of Americans cannot afford a $500 emergency.That means the average American would have to resort to high-interest credit card debt to pay for surprise expenses. Do your future self a favor and save 3 to 6 months' worth of living expenses.

7. The Emergency Fund: Your Financial Safety Net

It takes about 66 days for a new behavior to become an automatic habit.Stick to a productive daily routine to build healthy financial habits.When you build healthy financial habits, you will struggle less in life.

8. Create Healthy Habits

76% of millionaires exercise for at least 30 minutes daily.Never take your health for granted.Sticking to an exercise routine and a healthy diet is key.Remember that you cannot enjoy your wealth if you have bad health.

9. Prioritize Your Health

85% of millionaires read books for 30 minutes or more daily.Books give you a chance to learn from and think like the greatest minds that have walked this earth.If you want to succeed, you have to read.

10. Read More Books

“Compound interest is the eighth wonder of of world” - Albert EinsteinDon't work for your money, make your money work for you.Allow compound interest to build your wealth.<a href="https://wealthoperators.substack.com/p/50-free-resources-to-master-money">Wealth Building Guide - 50+ FREE Resources on Money, Investing & Personal Finance.</a> (It's FREE)

11. Make Money Work for You

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“Good luck can be enticed by accepting opportunity.”

There is power in simple and obvious ideas.The simple steps to wealth creation described in George S. Clason’s classic book, The Richest Man in Babylon, is an excellent example of this.The Richest Man in Babylon uses “Seven Cures for a Lean Purse” to overview basic financial principles.<a href="https://wealthoperators.beehiiv.com/subscribe">Wealth Building Guide - 50+ FREE Resources on Money, Investing & Personal Finance. </a>(It's free)While Clayson wrote the book in 1926, the principles remain as relevant as ever.Here are seven simple steps to wealth creation from The Richest Man in Babylon:

Seven Cures for a Lean Purse

Pay yourself first. Whatever it is you do for a living, put 10% of your salary away into a savings account, and do not touch it.And over time, that savings account will grow, bringing “satisfaction to your soul.”

1. Pay yourself first using the skills you already have

What each of us calls our ‘necessary expenses’ will always grow to equal our incomes unless we protest to the contrary…Confuse not the necessary expenses with thy desires…Study thoughtfully your accustomed habits of living.Keep your expenses low. Take a hard look at what comes out of your bank account and see if there’s anything you can cut.This will increase your savings rate and allow you to build wealth faster.

2. Keep your expenses low

“Make your gold multiply.”The money we may retain from our earnings is but the start.The earnings it will make shall build our fortunes…To put each coin to laboring that it may reproduce its kind…a stream of wealth that shall flow constantly into your purse… an income that continueth to come whether you work or travel.By investing in interest-generating assets, you’ll grow your wealth by compounding not only your initial investment but also all the interest the principal has generated previously.

3. Invest what you save

Don’t put your money at risk to get rich quickly.Look for reputable money managers and investment vehicles to put your money into.Slow and steady investing will get you rich over the long term.

4. Protect your investments from loss.

“Own your own home”By purchasing a home, you are building equity in an asset instead of paying money to someone else for rent.Also, homes generally appreciate in value over time.So not only are you building equity, your equity will likely increase in value while you own the house.

5. Invest In A Home

The sooner you start compounding your money, the more money you’ll have to live off of when you choose to retire.Investing in your pension or a tax-free retirement account will provide you with cash for you and your family to live off when you’re much older.

6. Invest For Retirement

The more of wisdom we know, the more we may earn. That man who seeks to learn more of his craft shall be richly rewardedAlways do the affairs of man change and improve because keen-minded men seek greater skill that they may better serve those upon whose patronage they depend.Therefore, I urge all to be in the front rank of progress and not to stand still, lest they be left behind.In the age of the internet, you can learn valuable skills almost for free.

7. Learn New Skills To Increase Your Income

“Free education is abundant, all over the internet. It’s desire to learn that’s scarce.”

It takes discipline to apply these seven simple steps to wealth creation.But over a lifetime, they can make the difference between you having the freedom of your time or having to work for someone else as you get older.Start now.

These 7 Steps Are Simple, But Not Easy

"Seven Cures For A Lean Purse" From "The Richest Man In Babylon" by George 
Samuel Clason: 1. Start thy purse to fattening. (Pay yourself first.) 2. 
Control thy expenditures. (Keep your expenses low.) 3. Make thy gold 
multiply. (Invest what you save.) 4. Guard thy treasures from loss. 5. Own 
thy own home. 6. Insure a future income. (Invest for retirement.) 7. 
Increase thy ability to earn.

Seven Cures for a Lean Purse: Wealth Creation Lessons From "The Richest Man In Babylon" - Wealest — Wealest

<a href="https://wealthoperators.beehiiv.com/subscribe">Wealth Building Guide - 50+ FREE Resources on Money, Investing & Personal Finance.</a> (It's free)● FREEDOM AS A GOALIndependence is the best financial goal."Controlling your time is the highest dividend money pays.﻿"● SLEEP WELLManage your money in a way that helps you sleep at night. That's different from saying you should aim to earn the highest returns or save a specific percentage of your income.The highest form of wealth is the ability to wake up every morning and say:"I can do whatever I want today."

Timeless Lessons On Wealth, Greed & Hap

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Save Money</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Wait for the compound effect</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Play your game </li><li class="ql-align-justify">Respect to role of luck</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Pay the price</li><li class="ql-align-justify">You can be wrong </li><li class="ql-align-justify">Always have room for errors </li><li class="ql-align-justify">You will Change</li></ul>

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“Money’s greatest intrinsic value—and this can’t be overstated—is its ability to give you control over your time.”

People's ability to save is more in their control than they might think."Building wealth has little to do with your income or investment returns, and lots to do with your savings rate."

Save Money

The secret to investing is the power of compound interest. Be patient and enjoy the compound effect."The most powerful and important book should be called Shut Up And Wait. It's just one page with a long- term chart of economic growth"

Wait For Compound Effect

Understand your own game, create your own strategy. Your needs are different."Beware taking financial cues from people playing a different game than you are."

Play Your Game

Doing well with money isn’t necessarily about what you know. It’s about how you behave. And behavior is hard to teach, even to really smart people. Money—investing, personal finance, and business decisions—is typically taught as a math-based field, where data and formulas tell us exactly what to do. But in the real world people don’t make financial decisions on a spreadsheet. They make them at the dinner table, or in a meeting room, where personal history, your own unique view of the world, ego, pride, marketing, and odd incentives are scrambled together. In The Psychology of Money, award-winning author Morgan Housel shares 19 short stories exploring the strange ways people think about money and teaches you how to make better sense of one of life’s most important topics.

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