1. The biggest feature of mentally strong people is that they are ready to face any situation....2. This is the second most common habit of mentally strong people, mentally strong people accept change.....3. You must have heard about Jack Ma, the founder of the e-commerce company alibaba.com. Jack Ma failed 2 times in the 4th class and 4 times in the 8th class. And his net worth is....Want to read the full article?Just click on <a href="https://www.targetpedia.com/five-habits-to-be-mentally-strong/">this link</a>.If you liked our article, than please like, stash, react and follow. Also please click on three dots to send this article to editor for featuring.

Who says there can’t be a hole in the sky, hit a stone with confidence, man!
If you want to be successful, make your dreams true, want to leave the heights of the sky, then apply these habits in your life which will make you mentally strong.

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Habits

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Communication

5 Habits to be Mentally Strong

We’ve all seen what I like to call <a href="https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/arrogance-vs-confidence-the-difference-can-make-or-break-your-leadership/">self-centered confidence</a> or just straight cockiness. This level of self-praise is a bit nauseating for everyone around that person. It’s a result of self-obsession. Basically, the world revolves around this person, so when things are going well, they are cocky and when things are not going their way, they are secretly insecure. This type of confidence is unwarranted because it assumes “I’m better than you” for no reason.

1. Self-Centered Confidence

all heard it before, confidence is everything. Those that seem to have it, have it all. They, themselves, are not necessarily perfect human beings, but they seemingly have the charisma to attract whatever they want in life.I remember way back in middle school during those awkward years looking at some of the popular kids questioning what they had that I didn’t.But, what about those times when you’re stuck in a job you don’t like? Can you still label yourself as an independent, powerful woman then? How does that affect your identity?

2. Perfection-Seeking Confidence

This brings me to the last and ultimate kind of confidence. Faith-filled confidence, which is not dependent on outside circumstances, but an underlying faith that tomorrow can be better than today through hard work and grit. This is the type of confidence that brings you peace in understanding that you might not have it all together today, but you trust that you have the values to get you there.This is the type that might say, “Hey I might currently suck at this particular skill, but I know I’ll get there eventually.” It brings you peace.

3. Faith-filled Confidence

We've all heard it before, confidence is everything. Those that seem to have it, have it all. They, themselves, are not necessarily perfect human beings, but they seemingly have the charisma to attract whatever they want in life.

The 3 Types of Confidence You Need to Know and Understand

I am not born for one corner; the whole world is my native land.

“I am not born for one corner; the whole world is my native land.” — Seneca quotes from Quotefancy.com

“I am not born for one corner; the whole world is my native land.”

The most common mistake people make is <a href="https://www.inc.com/peter-economy/9-ways-amazing-leaders-demonstrate-real-authenticity-every-day.html">to confuse their self-worth with their accomplishments.</a>

Never confuse who you are with what you do

What you say to yourself matters more than what the entire world together says about you.

Master your inner dialogue

When the storms of life start tossing you around like a toy, you need an anchor--something you can cling to when all seems hopeless.

Learn to live in the moment

Find the handful of people who will support you no matter what, invest your time and energy in strengthening those relationships.

Fortify your village, then build a moat

The time to "hurricane proof" your life isn't when the shingles start to fly off the roof, but when the sky is still blue and sunny."Work on your self-image, inner dialogue, present-moment awareness, and key relationships now."

Be prepared, be prepared, be prepared

It's so easy to forget how you can maintain your mental health.  That's why I like these short bits of inspirational reminders.

Beating cancer made Yale Law grad Seun Adebiyi rethink his fast-paced life and become an entrepreneur.

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A lot of people just keep thinking that I will do this, I will do that but they do not take action. Always remember if you want to do any work, then start it. Most people keep waiting for the right time and opportunity. Opportunity is never found but has to be created.More recently, according to research by Harvard University, maximum people fail due to distractions in their life. Destruction is everything that takes you away from your goals.It matters more what type of people you are spending time with.These are just few points . <a href="https://www.targetpedia.com/these-bad-habits-dont-let-you-succeed/">Read full article here.</a>

In this article, we are going to tell you about 5 common bad habits, which most people do in their life. For which they have to bear the consequences later. If you are very serious about your career then you must have to know these habits.


Every single person wants to be successful in his life. But the sad thing is that only some people are successful in their life. If I were to ask you what is the one thing that separates a successful person and an unsuccessful person from each other, what would you answer? Surely a lot of […]

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The more you learn, the more you realize you don't know shit, which means when you are in a junior grade maths class you seem to know everything but now when you are in a university maths class you seem to not know 200-300 things or more This is one of a great paradox I came across

Knowledge Circle

This is tell you that it is okay to not know everything, it is just a phase that you are expanding your knowledge circle 

Ever noticed that the harder you push for something, the harder it feels to achieve? Or the more available something is, the less you will want it? A paradox is something like this, something that is seemingly self-contradictory but after giving it a little consideration actually starts to make a lot of f*cking sense. That’s what makes paradoxes such mindfucks. And that’s what I love about them. Over my years working in this business, I’ve found that some of life’s real grains of wisdom emerge from paradoxes. So stick around, I’m sharing a bunch of them right here, right now. PARADOX #01: Friendships 1:02 PARADOX #02: Success 1:56 PARADOX #03: Fear 2:31 PARADOX #04: Personality 3:23 PARADOX #05: Connectivity 4:09 PARADOX #06: Happiness 5:11 PARADOX #07: Knowledge 6:13 PARADOX #08: Being Right 7:06 PARADOX #09: Imperfections 7:33 PARADOX #10: Choice 8:26 PARADOX #11: Relationships 9:19 PARADOX #12: Loving Yourself 10:30 PARADOX #13: Death 11:15 PARADOX #14: Uncertainty 11:50 PARADOX #15: Change 11:58 BONUS PARADOX: 12:18 Oh and there’s one more. The more you spend your time liking this video and subscribing to this channel, the less sleep you lose at night. Or something like that. Now, go watch it. And leave a comment. — The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck Official Summary: https://youtu.be/lz8sUiXAnbs Everything is Fucked: A Book About Hope Official Summary here: https://youtu.be/fEk5dhbNU70 — IDEAS THAT CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE Each month I write down ideas that could help you change your life. It’s a way to get through your month with a bang and fill yourself with ideas that could potentially change everything. Sign up to receive them for free here: https://mrk.mn/2Op39wk If you were into this video and you haven’t already subscribed to my channel, do that now and hit the little bell to get notifications for when I post something new. I’m Mark Manson, #1 NYTimes Bestselling author of: Everything is Fucked: A Book About Hope - https://amzn.to/2T2nb1a The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck - https://amzn.to/2rEX2Jc And in early 2020 I announced my new audiobook on Audible, called Love Is Not Enough: https://mrk.mn/2TCeM1U I share other type of content to make you a less awful human in these places: https://www.facebook.com/Markmansonnet/ https://www.instagram.com/markmanson/ https://www.pinterest.com/iammarkmanson/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/markmanson/ https://twitter.com/IAmMarkManson Thanks for watching.

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Ever noticed that the harder you push for something, the harder it feels to achieve?

Or the more available something is, the less you will want it? 

A paradox is something like this, something that is seemingly self-contradictory but after giving it a little consideration actually starts to make a lot of f*cking sense. That’s what makes paradoxes such mindfucks. And that’s what I love about them.

Over my years working in this business, I’ve found that some of life’s real grains of wisdom emerge from paradoxes. So stick around, I’m sharing a bunch of them right here, right now.

INTRO: 00:00
PARADOX #01: Friendships 1:02
PARADOX #02: Success 1:56
PARADOX #03: Fear  2:31
PARADOX #04: Personality 3:23
PARADOX #05: Connectivity 4:09
PARADOX #06: Happiness 5:11
PARADOX #07: Knowledge 6:13
PARADOX #08: Being Right 7:06
PARADOX #09: Imperfections 7:33
PARADOX #10: Choice 8:26
PARADOX #11: Relationships 9:19
PARADOX #12: Loving Yourself 10:30
PARADOX #13: Death 11:15
PARADOX #14: Uncertainty 11:50
PARADOX #15: Change 11:58
BONUS PARADOX: 12:18

Oh and there’s one more. The more you spend your time liking this video and subscribing to this channel, the less sleep you lose at night. Or something like that. Now, go watch it. And leave a comment.

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15 Paradoxes That Will Change Your Life

Happiness can’t be a goal in itself. Therefore, it’s not something that’s achievable. I believe that happiness is merely a byproduct of usefulness.

Emerson says:“The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well.”

A Quote By Emerson

<ul><li>Help your boss with something that’s not your responsibility. </li><li>Take your mother to a spa. </li><li>Create a collage with pictures (not a digital one) for your spouse. </li><li>Write an article about the stuff you learned in life. </li><li>Help the pregnant lady who also has a 2-year old with her stroller. </li><li>Call your friend and ask if you can help with something. </li><li>Build a standing desk. </li><li>Start a business and hire an employee and treat them well. </li> </ul>

How To Be Useful

Being useful is a mindset. And like with any mindset, it starts with a decision. One day I woke up and thought to myself: What am I doing for this world? The answer was nothing.

Being useful is a mindset. 

For the longest time, I believed that there’s only one purpose of life: And that is to be happy. But I was wrong. There's something better than that.

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Problem Solving

The Purpose Of Life Is Not Happiness: It’s Usefulness

We agree to many requests not because we want to do them, but because we don’t want to be seen as rude, arrogant, or unhelpful. Often, you have to consider saying no to someone you will interact with again in the future—your co-worker, your spouse, your family and friends.

Why We Say Yes

The words “yes” and “no” get used in comparison to each other so often that it feels like they carry equal weight in conversation. In reality, they are not just opposite in meaning, but of entirely different magnitudes in commitment.When you say no, you are only saying no to one option. When you say yes, you are saying no to every other option.

The Difference Between Yes and No

Saying no is sometimes seen as a luxury that only those in power can afford. And it is true: turning down opportunities is easier when you can fall back on the safety net provided by power, money, and authority. But it is also true that saying no is not merely a privilege reserved for the successful among us. It is also a strategy that can help you become successful.

The Role of No

Over time, as you continue to improve and succeed, your strategy needs to change.The opportunity cost of your time increases as you become more successful. At first, you just eliminate the obvious distractions and explore the rest. As your skills improve and you learn to separate what works from what doesn’t, you have to continually increase your threshold for saying yes.

Upgrading Your No

Most of us are probably too quick to say yes and too slow to say no. It’s worth asking yourself where you fall on that spectrum.If you have trouble saying no, you may find the following strategy proposed by Tim Harford, the British economist I mentioned earlier, to be helpful. He writes, “One trick is to ask, “If I had to do this today, would I agree to it?” It’s not a bad rule of thumb, since any future commitment, no matter how far away it might be, will eventually become an imminent problem.”

How to Say No

More effort is wasted doing things that don’t matter than is wasted doing things inefficiently. And if that is the case, elimination is a more useful skill than optimization.I am reminded of the famous Peter Drucker quote, “There is nothing so useless as doing efficiently that which should not be done at all.”

The Power of No

Not doing something will always be faster than doing it.

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Productivity

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Career

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Human Resources

The Ultimate Productivity Hack is Saying No

Do not put off until tomorrow, that which can be done today.

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Procrastination

<ul><li>Loving yourself is the first rule of love.</li><li>The biggest milestone on the internet is to earn the first $1.</li><li>Many stories bore people. All people want is a piece of information that will tell them how to survive in chaos.</li><li>Don't beat up yourself when things go wrong. The solution will not come when you lose your cool. The solution will come when you’re at peace with yourself.</li><li>It takes a little effort to turn a page of your memory to recollect something you did in the past that could unlock the door for you in the present or future.</li></ul>

What was the most interesting piece of advice?

<ul><li>People who suffered the worst broken relationships write the most romantic novels. People who went through a hard life write the most interesting stories.</li><li>Start doing something that has never been done before, and people will think you’re crazy. Stop doing it, and people will want to stone you.</li><li>Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about being found by others.</li><li>You could actually go through life without realizing you were there.</li><li>Stop indulging in other people’s affairs. If you’re unable to cope with your own problems, why indulge in other people’s affairs?</li></ul>

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Creativity

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