We all know people who seem to attract fun. They’re the friends whose presence at a dinner party guarantees that everyone is going to have a good time. They exude warmth, playfulness and self-confidence, and people always appear happy to have them around.

People Who Seem To Attract Fun Are Everywhere

• They’re spontaneous. • They’re at ease with themselves and comfortable in their own skin. • They’re not afraid to be silly. • They’re not afraid to try new things and to be a beginner. • They’re not afraid to be vulnerable. • They’re appreciative of the small things. • They find joy in being alive. • You never feel judged by them. • They make everyone feel included. • They’re considerate of others’ feelings. • They get excited with you. • They create wonderful, shared memories.

Traits People That Attract Fun Have

What might not have occurred to you is that it’s possible for you to become one of those people yourself, even if you think of yourself as shy or introverted.Very few of the characteristics mentioned were genetically determined and you don’t need to be extroverted to be considered fun. In fact, many of the qualities people mentioned — such as being considerate of other people’s feelings — are things that introverts do naturally.

Introverts Can Also Be One

What’s more, many of the traits that make people seem fun are the result of choices and habits practiced over days and years. This means that, counterintuitive though it may seem, being a “fun” person is a skill we can develop. The primary thing that separates people who attract fun from their peers is their attitude. They approach life in general with what I call a “fun mindset”

Being A Fun Person Is A Habit

Having a fun mindset refers to the habit of intentionally approaching and reacting to your life in a way that is attractive to fun — or, more specifically, true fun, which I define as the confluence of playfulness, connection and flow.The secret to developing a fun mindset is to deliberately seek out as many opportunities as you can in order to create or appreciate playfulness, connection and flow.

Fun Mindset

Here are some specific suggestions for how to do so.<ol><li>Be easy-to-laugh</li><li>Say “yes, and”</li><li>Sprinkle playfulness, connection and flow into your days</li><li> </li></ol>

4 Ways To Develop A Fun Mindset

Being “easy-to-laugh” is one of the most powerful ways to nurture a fun mindset.We all enjoy spending time with people who make us laugh and who laugh a lot themselves. The easier you are to laugh (and the more things you can find to laugh about) the more attractive you’ll be, both to other people and to fun. And, to point out the obvious, you’ll also spend more time laughing, which in itself will make you feel good.

Be Easy-to-Laugh

“Yes, and” is a technique (and philosophy) derived from improv comedy in which you respond to new ideas and suggestions by agreeing with them (the “yes”) and building on them (the “and”).You are supposed to agree and then add something of your own. If I start a scene with ‘I can’t believe it’s so hot in here,’ and you just say, ‘Yeah … ’ we’re kind of at a standstill. But if I say, ‘I can’t believe it’s so hot in here,’ and you say, ‘What did you expect? We’re in hell.

Say "Yes, And

It's about deliberately choosing not to shoot down ideas, but instead to affirm and build on them — as a way to strengthen your fun mindset by opening yourself to spontaneity, making other people feel included, and becoming more adaptive (and, for that matter, less of a wet blanket).

Do Not Shoot Down Ideas But Build On Them

Another way to develop a fun mindset is to regularly — and explicitly — ask yourself, “How could I add a bit of playfulness, connection or flow to whatever I’m doing or experiencing right now?”You can do this whether you’re with other people or alone, and your ideas don’t have to be earth-shattering to be effective. Approaching life with a fun mindset can affect your moment-to-moment experience and improve your mood. Figuring out ways to add even teensy bits of playfulness, connection and flow to your everyday activities can also help objectively non-fun activities feel more tolerable.

Sprinkle Playfulness, Connection And Flow Into Your Days

In every job that must be done, there is an element of fun. You find the fun and, snap! The job’s a game.

One of the play signals dogs use is the bow they perform when they try to get another dog to play with them — they lunge onto their front elbows, stick their bottoms in the air, and wag their tails. An example of a play signal in humans would be brief eye contact combined with a smile or a comment that invites conversation. Even a playfully sarcastic line can work, such as “Nice weather we’re having” when you’re in the midst of a snowstorm.

Examples Of Play Signals With Dogs And Humans

This is one of the many ways in which our interactions with our devices are getting in the way of fun: Instead of sending play signals, we’re all staring down at our screens. With no signals, there are no invitations to play, and no play happens. Making a point to look up from your phone and send play signals is a wonderful way to invite more playful interactions — and ultimately, more fun — into your life.

Devices Interaction Are Killing The Play Signals

And if you’re still feeling insecure or apprehensive about putting yourself out there, remember that anything you do to attract fun is a gift to the people you’re with. As bestselling author Michael Lewis points out, “People don’t want to have a boring life, or even a boring conversation. They’re just risk averse. If you create an environment where there’s no reason to be afraid, all of a sudden, things loosen up.” In other words, everyone wants to have fun; they just don’t know how.

Anything You Do To Attract Fun Is A Gift For People You're With

The more you cultivate your own fun mindset, the more fun you’ll attract — and the better equipped you’ll be to invite others to join you.

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We all know people who seem to attract fun — here’s how you can do it too

"Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darknesses of others."

Definition: Having or showing a wish to do evil to others.15.000.000 Adults struggle with PTSD each year, meaning that people encounter something malevolent and it breaks them.Experiencing suffer is horrible, but having any other human acting malevolent on purpose against you is another level of horrible. Not only due to the suffer experienced, also because that means if another human can do that you've got part of that same malevolent essence within you as a human being.

Malevolent

If you've been naive and victimized the ay out of that is to no longer be naive and neither be victimized.F.e. Harry Potter can withstand Voldemort because he's got a piece of him.You should learn The Philosophy of Malevolence and Learn to Become Dangerous.

Stop being naive and victimized

"Develop your inner psycopath, so you know when you see one."

Despite being hard on realizing you should become a monster volunterily. Otherwise you'll become a monster by possession.<ul><li>From suffering you'll become bitter.</li><li>From bitter you'll become resentful.</li><li>From resentful you'll become vengeful.</li><li>From vengeful you'll come to an end having malevolent thoughts and instincts.</li></ul>

Become a Monster

When looking for a victim predators always look for victims who won't fight back.This can be seen in pedophiles choices f.e.The main victims tend to be those who don't know what they are, thus being easier to manipulate, naive and fragile.

Predators and Victims

Discover what Jordan Peterson thinks about developing our Inner Psychopath.

When looking at PTSD, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, we find out many things about humans. A huge reason why PTSD is so terrible and life altering is because people experience evil and malevolence. It's hard to wrap one's head around that a human can do terrible things to another human being. In this video Jordan Peterson explains that we must develop our dark side willingly, or else it can take control of us unwillingly. This is a problem many of us have, but are too scared to face. Develop Your Inner Psychopath Before It's TOO LATE! - Jordan Peterson LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE! Buy Jordan Peterson's Books! 12 Rules for Life: https://amzn.to/3oQm42x Beyond Order: https://amzn.to/3Bn4xDW Maps of Meaning: https://amzn.to/3gLfw0u Speaker: Jordan Peterson Follow Jordan Peterson: https://www.youtube.com/c/JordanPeter... https://www.youtube.com/c/JordanBPete... Art on thumbnail by: BeaGifted Videos: Music/Videos/Animations are licensed through Envato Elements Some Via Pexels.com and Pixabay.com ►FAIR-USE COPYRIGHT DISCLAIMER * Copyright Disclaimer Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, commenting, news reporting, teaching, scholarship, and research. Fair use is a use permitted by copyright statute that might otherwise be infringing. Non-profit, educational or personal use tips the balance in favor of fair use. - This video has no negative impact on the original works (It would actually be positive for them) - This video is also for teaching purposes. - It is transformative in nature. - I only used bits and pieces of videos to get the point across where necessary. I do not own the rights to these audio clips. They have been use, in accordance with fair use, been repurposed with the intent of educating and inspiring others. For any questions contact: themoneymotiveyt@gmail.com

When looking at PTSD, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, we find out many things about humans. A huge reason why PTSD is so terrible and life altering is because people experience evil and malevolence. It's hard to wrap one's head around that a human can do terrible things to another human being. In this video Jordan Peterson explains that we must develop our dark side willingly, or else it can take control of us unwillingly. This is a problem many of us have, but are too scared to face.

Develop Your Inner Psychopath Before It's TOO LATE! - Jordan Peterson

LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE FOR MORE!

Buy Jordan Peterson's Books!
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- This video has no negative impact on the original works (It would actually be positive for them)
- This video is also for teaching purposes.
- It is transformative in nature.
- I only used bits and pieces of videos to get the point across where necessary.

I do not own the rights to these audio clips. They have been use, in accordance with fair use, been repurposed with the intent of educating and inspiring others.

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Develop Your Inner Psychopath Before It's TOO LATE! - Jordan Peterson

I've cowered through life, loathing every moment of existence, finding ways to be disrespectful and demeaning to myself. Only to reach a place in life to gain perspective to live better and love thyself. Although, it comes at such a late stage, I'd want nothing but to share this perspective to those who are looking and to those who aren't, especially to the ones who aren't, cause they'd be needing it the most.

It's All About Perspective 

My hatred towards self stemmed, some from childhood trauma, some from the constant yearning to please others. But, mainly from me constantly feeling less amongst my peers, and generally just anyone about me. Anyone I saw, looked perfect. And I belittled myself trying to impress the perfect beings around me. Unless I had the crucial perspective change that changed my life.

Everyone Is Perfect

Yes, this is where my life took a turn. The moment I realised that I'm neither lesser nor better than anyone around me. Rather, when broken down, we're all the same. Different lives, trying to make sense of the world, with their own insecurities and imperfections. At the end of the day, we're all just little pieces of fawked up beings. And your imperfections aren't more imperfect than anyone else's around.

We Are All Just Fawked Up

After you've gained this perspective, easier said than done, but once you truly embrace this idea that nobody matters, and everybody matters at the same time. Is the time you let go of your ego, and let go of your shame, and be truly you. And the truly you, is a kind hearted empathetic being, cause everyone's the same. Everyone is you...and nobody is you...and that's the beauty of being.

Not Shame, Not Ego, But Empathy!

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Happiness a natural and only leads to positive behaviours, unselfishness, creativity and helpfulness. However happiness must be practised and learned.Learning to be happy as being free from the habit of responding negatively to external things in our environment. Plus being happy involves separating facts from opinions. Finally working towards your goals is another action that encourages happiness.

HAPPY HABITS BREEDS SUCCESS

<ol><li class="ql-align-justify">Sense of Direction: Maintain your personal focus and goals.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Understanding: Try to separate fact from fiction, including accepting your errors and correcting them.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Courage: Have the courage to act on your goals and beliefs to make them a reality.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Charity: Start by treating others even more kindness than you currently do. If you treat others with more kindness, you'll start treating yourself with more kindness.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Self-Confidence: Self-confidence will grow as you gain more successful experiences. you can maximize your self-confidence by remembering your past, successes and forgetting your failures.</li></ol>

IDENTIFY WHAT SUCCESS LOOK LIKE

<ol><li class="ql-align-justify">Create goals and targets you believe you can potentially achieve. Success mechanisms depend on goals.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Make sure your goals focus on the end, not the means. Your mechanisms will find a way to work if your supplying your goals.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Make mistakes feeds your auto-correct. This is a positive reaction that helps you redirect towards your goal.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Forgot your past errors and move on. You should focus on the final successful choice that will lead you towards your goal.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Trust the process without worrying about having to adjust it. Let your mechanisms work. </li></ol>

FIVE FUNDAMENTALS FOR SETTING UP EFFECTIVE SUCCESS MECHANISMS.

Over time adopting a failure mechanism will have a significant impact on your life. You'll have poor health and wellbeing. Additionally, you will heal slower than people with a positive mindset.Seven needs that you should aim to fulfill to better your well being:<ol><li class="ql-align-justify">LOVE</li><li class="ql-align-justify">SECURITY</li><li class="ql-align-justify">CREATIVE EXPRESSION</li><li class="ql-align-justify">RECOGNITION</li><li class="ql-align-justify">NEW EXPERIENCES</li><li class="ql-align-justify">SELF-ESTEEM</li><li class="ql-align-justify">POSITIVITY ABOUT THE FUTURE.</li></ol>

SMALL SUCCESSES WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE BETTER

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Put more living in your life! Psycho‑Cybernetics is renowned doctor and professor Maxwell Maltz’s simple, scientific, and revolutionary program for health and success. Happiness and success are habits. So are failure and misery. But negative habits can be changed—and Psycho‑Cybernetics shows you how! This is your personal guide to the amazing power of Psycho‑Cybernetics—a program based on one of the world’s classic self‑help books, a multimillion‑copy bestseller proven effective by readers worldwide. Presenting positive attitude as a means for change, Maltz’s teaching has the ring of common sense. Psycho‑Cybernetics is the original text that defined the mind/body connection—the concept that paved the way for most of today’s personal empowerment programs. Turn crises into creative opportunities, dehypnotize yourself from false beliefs, and celebrate new freedom from fear and guilt. Testimonials and stories are interspersed with advice from Maltz, as well as techniques for relaxation and visualization. Dr. Maxwell Maltz teaches you his techniques of “emotional surgery”—the path to a dynamic new self‑image and self‑esteem and to achieving the success and happiness you deserve!

Maxwell Maltz was an American cosmetic surgeon and author of Psycho-Cybernetics, which was a system of ideas that he claimed could improve one's self-image leading to a more successful and fulfilling life.

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Aphantasia is the inability to visualize. Otherwise known as imagine-free imagination.

What Is Aphantasia?

What do you “see ” in your mind?<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">You might imagine a lifelike image of a horse in your mind, while your friend might only see a dim or vague one.</li></ul>People with aphantasia don’t create any images of familiar objects, people, or places in their mind’s eye, not for thoughts, memories, or pictures of the future.We lack this visual system completely .

Think of a horse...

Can you hear the horse neigh? Imagine what it would feel like to travel on horseback?Imagination is a spectrum – and not just for our visual imagery but across all our senses! There exist remarkable, often unsuspected invisible differences in our sensory imagination ranging from absence (aphantasia) to extremely vivid (hyperphantasia), and everything in-between.

It’s Not Just The Visual System

Aphantasia can impact our ability to recollect events and facts from our past experiences (autobiographical memory ).Evidence also points to a connection to other aspects of human experience, impacting everything from education and career choices to reduced PTSD sensitivity and even the reliability of our eye-witness testimony.

There Are Many Things We Know About Aphantasia…

‘Imaginative’ means having or showing creativity or inventiveness. Creativity involves a whole network of brain activities from integrating past events and identities to thinking about the future and navigating different pathways toward desired goals to invent novel things.Aphantasics can still do all these things! We simply go about the creative process differently .

Fact: Aphantasics Can Be Richly Imaginative

Aphantasia is a variation in human experience. It is not a disability, disorder, or defect . Nor is it a barrier to success. Discovering you have aphantasia can lead to new insights into your unique way of thinking, insights that can greatly impact your life, work, and wellbeing often in unimaginable ways.

Not Having A Mind’s Eyes Can Lead To A Different Way Of Thinking

An estimated ~3-5% of the population experience aphantasia, and another 10-15% are believed to experience the opposite, hyperphantasia.

Aphantasia Is A Unique Variation In Human Experience 

Ed Catmull, co-founder of Pixar and former president of Walt Disney Animation Studios. Craig Venter, biologist who first sequenced the Human Genome. Blake Ross, creator of Mozilla Firefox. Glen Keane, Disney Animator and Creator of The Little Mermaid. Penn Jillette of Penn and Teller.All have aphantasia.

Aphantasics are brilliant creatives, inventors, authors, musicians, scientists, entrepreneurs & more!

Aphantasia and hyperphantasia are relatively new scientific discoveries [2015], and these invisible differences in how we imagine impact our life, work, and well-being in so many different ways.Many we’re just beginning to uncover!

...And Many More Unknown Unknowns

Aphantasia is pretty interesting, especially when you have it, and I wanted to share that.

Aphantasia is the inability to visualize mental imagery. Otherwise known as, image-free imagination. Confused? Let's break it down.

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In Greek mythology, the story of Odysseus and the Sirens illustrates a paradigmatic example of self-control. When the hero of Homer’s epic prepares to travel past the Sirens, mythical creatures who lure sailors with their enchanted singing, he instructs his crew to plug their ears with wax and tie him to the ship’s mast. That way, he can listen to the Sirens as he sails by, and the crew can keep their wits. No matter how much he begs to be released, no one will hear his pleas.Was Odysseus exercising willpower with his plan, or was he merely removing his ability to cave to temptation?

Odysseus And The Sirens

Researchers have long wondered what tools people successfully use to resist temptations—like eating another bag of potato chips or checking Facebook one more time before bed. And while no one really knows why some of us have more self-control than others, psychologists and behavioral economists know a lot about the methods people use to resist temptation.

Self-control, Willpower And Temptation

Philosophers, psychologists, and economists have reached the consensus that we can use two different kinds of regulation to achieve self-control: synchronic regulation and diachronic regulation. Synchronic regulation relies on deliberate, effortful willpower, in the moment, to resist current temptation. Diachronic regulation involves selecting and modifying one’s situation and cultivating habits over time to avoid temptation, in other words, implements a plan to avoid future temptation—essentially removing willpower from the equation.

Our Methods To Resist Temptation

Psychologists and economists have increasingly argued that because willpower is difficult to exercise, diachronic regulation is more effective than synchronic regulation. This conclusion is based in part on the failure of willpower-driven campaigns (such as Nancy Regan’s “Just Say No” campaign, which had no measurable effects on youth tobacco, alcohol or drug use).

So, What Is Best? Over Time Or In The Moment?

But researcher Jordan Bridges and her colleagues hypothesized that such assessments of synchronic regulation rested on a faulty interpretation of the data, that supposed examples of effective purely diachronic strategies involved the use of willpower to implement, and that the popular, or “folk,” view of willpower is just as important. “We theorized that it takes willpower to implement temptation-avoidance strategies,” said Bridges.

When Does Willpower Come In?

Using a multifactorial research design, the researchers sought to decontaminate cases of self-control to test how people viewed synchronic and diachronic regulation as separate entities.What they found was that when the two forms of regulation were pulled apart, participants thought only willpower counted as self-control; pure diachronic strategies did not. And in mixed cases involving both forms of regulation, participants rated the cases as involving the exercise of self-control, only because they involved synchronic regulation, not the more behavioral framework of temptation avoidance.

Only Willpower Counts As Self-control

Bridges said these findings are important for the study of self-control, and for how psychologists, philosophers, economists and clinical practitioners discuss these concepts.“Scientific discussion, and science communication, can often involve debates over terms that don’t track how we ordinarily use them,” said Bridges. “If we care about successfully communicating scientific results, we need to speak in terms that people understand.”

The Popular, Or “Folk”, View Of Willpower

The research’s final experiment found that self-control in a diachronic case depends on whether a person uses synchronic regulation at two moments: when they a) initiate and b) follow-through on a plan to resist temptation.Taken together, the results strongly suggest that synchronic regulation is the sole difference maker in the folk concept of self-control.

Only “In The Moment” Counts As Self-control

“People often infer that it’s the diachronic strategy doing the self-control work, when really, moments of synchronic regulation are being amplified with diachronic strategy. Specifically, people typically use willpower (synchronic regulation) to achieve their plans to avoid temptation (diachronic regulation). So even if cases of diachronic regulation seem to involve self-control, this may be because they are contaminated by synchronic regulation.Understanding the role of willpower in self-control has implications for the way we talk about helping people break habits.”

(Active-Current) Resistance Over (Passive-Future) Avoidance

I generally avoid temptation unless I can't resist it.

I can resist anything except temptation.

I suppose it is tempting, if the only tool you have is a hammer, to treat everything as if it were a nail.

It seems we either avoid temptation or resist it. So, in effect, we either lack strategy or willpower. But is it really as black and white and as fair and square as that? 

It takes willpower to implement temptation-avoidance strategies, researchers report.

New Insights on the Significance of Willpower to Self-Control

“The lack of boundaries can make people feel powerless and hopeless.”

Anxiety and depression are just some of the mental issues or concerns that arise when boundaries are not present in relationships, thus, setting boundaries with friends, family, and partners can actually help strengthen those relationships.

Setting boundaries Protects You From HARMFUL EXPERIENCES

People want to feel seen and being unable to have your needs met equates to you not being seen in relationships. Setting boundaries means knowing your own limits about what you will and won’t tolerate. This is important because it is the first step in protecting yourself from experiences that would be harmful to you if you allowed them.

Why Setting Boundaries is Healthy and Impo

Telling people what you need can also lead to increased feelings of empowerment and control over your own life experience.

Why Setting Boundaries is Empowering 

“It’s okay if you text me, but I can’t respond until after work.”“I just need 30 minutes to complete this task, and then we can talk.”“I know I said I was available tonight, but I think I do need a quiet night at home.”But...if you're still hesitant on speaking up to set your boundaries clear, use the 3 Tips for Setting Boundaries in your Daily Life

So Don't Feel Guilty When You Want To Say...

<ol><li>Unlearn self-neglect</li><li>Think about time as “finite”</li><li>Use ‘I’ statements</li></ol>

3 Tips for Setting Boundaries in Your Daily life

Taking care of your own needs before or in tandem with those of your loved ones can often be painted as “selfish,” but it’s not.Self-neglect is not a way to show how much you care for others. In relationships, both parties can choose what they want and need.Unlearn that you shouldn’t have boundaries.Start to tell yourself that you deserve to have preferences as this can be a helpful step toward speaking your needs and desires.

Unlearn Self-neglect

Saying “yes” to everything a boss, friend, family member, or even partner asks you to do leaves very little energy for you to pursue what makes you happy.Boundaries around how you spend your time and allow others to use it are essential. Thinking about time as finite, not infinite, can make people more aware of how important and impactful their time is.

Think About Time as “FINITE”

Keep it clear and concise without overexplaining yourself. Your boundaries are about you. Communicate in ‘I’ statements instead of ‘you’ statements. And instead of explaining the problem, focus on what you need as that is what boundary is all about.For example, instead of telling a friend not to talk about a specific topic in front of you, communicate that it’s unhealthy for you to participate in conversations about that topic.Healthy boundaries are not saying, ’you can’t talk to me that way', it is rather saying, ‘if you talk to me that way I will remove myself from this conversation.

Use ‘I’ statements

It’s important to keep in mind that not everyone will respect your boundaries even if communicated compassionately. It is important to accept that anyone who is angered by your boundaries might be "toxic" in your life, so it's important for you to rethink to what capacity you want them in your life.

If There Are Lines You’ve Drawn that are Crossed

"People will either come to understand that being in a relationship with you requires a certain level of respectful behavior from them, or those relationships will end and you’ll have space in your life for healthier ones."

If you have trouble setting boundaries in your life, there are ways to talk to yourself and others that might ease the process. These 3 tips might be helpful to you in setting boundaries for yourself and to make all your relationships with others healthy.

If you have trouble setting boundaries in your life, there are ways to talk to yourself and others that might make it easier. 

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Setting boundaries in your daily life can protect you from 'harmful experiences': Here are 3 tips to get you started

These words are often said by gym coaches. It is a hard-hitting quote for everyone. Motivation is temporary, But discipline is permanent. We get motivated in thousand ways, but only one way to get through discipline. It would be best if you had the willpower to have both.

Don’t get motivated, be disciplined.

There is always a comparison between salt and sugar. Most of the good people are compared with sugar, but it is not exactly. People tend to be salt. A small amount of salt plays a huge role in maintaining human body health. If we consume too much salt, it leads to high blood pressure and hypertension. In the same way, our care and affection towards people are like salt. If we care too much for a person, we can’t overcome it. So people tend to be salt and use it wisely.

People are like salt:

''Slow and steady wins the race'' is a story about a rabbit and tortoise. We have known this story since childhood. The story says that you can be more successful by doing things slowly and steadily than by acting quickly and carelessly.Imagine two people. One person gets motivated for a day and does 500 push-ups; the next, he starts procrastinating. After a week, he gets the same motivation and the loop continues. There is no use in this. But the other person has some discipline, he has a consistent mindset, and he does 100 push-ups each day.

Slow and steady wins the race:

Everyone needs some motivation to do work. But it is not healthy in all aspects. Most people procrastinate their time, so they need motivation. Warren Buffett says, “An idiot with a plan can beat a genius without a plan”. Commit to the task, you have a job and you have to do it wholeheartedly. If you do that, you will not need motivation, it leads through discipline. Hustle every day to do something. Nowadays, people have too many distractions and easily get satisfied with what they get. At the end of the day, both motivation and discipline lead to success.

Don’t get motivated be disciplined:

Disciplined person is always Happy! 😊✌️

These words are often said by gym coaches. It is a hard-hitting quote for everyone. Motivation is temporary, But discipline is permanent. We get motivated in thousand ways, but only one way to get…

Well,. If you’re using words, have you ever wondered who invented Words? Well,There is no reason. The order of the alphabet has never made any sense. All we know is that the people who invented the first alphabet put the letters in a certain order. When they passed those letters on to other people, and those people passed the letters on to us, we kept the letters in that order.

Who invented Words?

Well, all I can say is they form in jumble of letters. well, Imagine someone just invented the new word for TV and it is called for example, ‘screen’, And it gets very famous. That is all I can say of how to make A word at home and become very famous.

Well, If there is no reason, then How do they form?

The original alphabet was developed by a Semitic people living in or near Egypt. * They based it on the idea developed by the Egyptians, but used their own specific symbols. It was quickly adopted by their neighbors and relatives to the east and north, the Canaanites, the Hebrews, and the Phoenicians.

Who invented the ALPHABET?

However theancient historian Livy gave credit to the second early Roman king Numa Pompilius for devising a calendar of 12 months. The extra months Ianuarius and Februarius had been invented, supposedly by Numa Pompilius, as stop-gaps.

Who invented the Months of the year?

Horace MannHorace Mann is considered as the inventor of the concept of school. He was born in 1796 and later became Secretary of Education in Massachusetts. He was a pioneer in bringing educational reforms into society.

Who invented School?

The earliest fragment of musical notation is found on a 4,000-year-old Sumerian clay tablet, which includes instructions and tunings for a hymn honoring the ruler Lipit-Ishtar.

Who Invented Songs?

The Nepalese have been named the “Nicest people on the planet” in a number of traveler surveys.

Who is the Kindest people on the planet?

Origin of the word The word is further derived from the Middle English word 'kindenes' meaning 'noble deeds' or 'courtesy'. The first recorded use of the word kindness was in the 14th century.

Who invented Kindness?

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Narcissism is a self-centered personality style characterized as having an excessive interest in one's physical appearance or image and an excessive preoccupation with one's own needs, often at the expense of others. A narcissist is dubious and highly manipulative and will do anything to get what they want. They have mastered the act of using people to fulfill thier desires and to keep the spotlight on themselves. Here in this episode you learn about narcissism, who a narcissist is, what makes up a narcissist and how to handle them. LISTEN TO FULL EPISODE HEREhttps://tinyurl.com/2nf4vugn

DEALING WITH A NARCISSIST (Life Upgrade Podcast)  

Handling narcissist have never been so easy

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DEALING WITH A NARCISSIST.

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