Courage. Kindness. Friendship. Character.
These are the qualities that define us as human beings, and propel us, on occasion, to greatness.

💙 Choose Kind – A simple act of kindness can change someone’s life and create a ripple effect.🌎 Empathy is Transformative – Understanding others' struggles fosters deeper connections and acceptance.😊 Kindness Over Popularity – The best friendships are built on compassion, not social status.

The Power of Kindness

👀 See Beyond Appearance – August's face may be different, but his heart and mind are just like anyone else’s.🤝 True Friendship is Unconditional – Real friends stand by you despite what others may say or think.💪 Strength in Individuality – Accepting yourself is the first step to inspiring others.

Embracing Differences

😨 Fear of Being Judged – The struggle to fit in is real, but standing out for the right reasons is powerful. 🚧 Bullying is a Choice – Julian represents those who choose cruelty over kindness, teaching a lesson about consequences. 🎭 Navigating Social Circles – Friendships shift, and true character is revealed when challenges arise.

The Challenges of Middle School

👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 Unbreakable Bonds – August’s family provides love, encouragement, and a safe space for him to thrive. 🌟 Siblings Face Their Own Struggles – Via learns to balance her love for August with her own need for recognition. 🏡 Home as a Refuge – A strong support system builds resilience against the harshness of the outside world.

The Role of Family Support

🔄 Multiple Points of View – The story isn’t just August’s—each character has their own journey of growth. 🤔 Seeing Through Another’s Eyes – Understanding others' experiences leads to greater empathy. 📖 Everyone Has a Story – Behind every person is a struggle we may never fully understand.

Perspective Changes Everything

🏆 Courage is Quiet Strength – August doesn’t fight back with words or fists, but with resilience and grace. 💖 Acceptance Takes Time – People can change when given the chance to grow and learn. 🌟 Being Different is a Superpower – In the end, what makes you unique is what makes you extraordinary.

Triumph Over Adversity

R.J. Palacio’s Wonder tells the story of August Pullman, a boy with a facial difference navigating middle school for the first time. Through multiple perspectives, the novel explores kindness, friendship, bullying, and acceptance. Auggie’s journey proves that true strength comes from within, and choosing kindness can change the world.

A special movie tie-in edition of R.J. Palacio's #1 New York Times bestseller. Over 8 million people have fallen in love with Wonder and Auggie Pullman, the ordinary boy with the extraordinary face, who inspired a movement to Choose Kind and an upcoming graphic novel White Bird - on sale 10/1/2019! This special movie tie-in edition features an eight-page full-color insert with photos from the film, a foreword by the director Stephen Chbosky, an afterword by R.J. Palacio, a behind-the-scenes look at the making of the movie with anecdotes from the cast and crew, and a family discussion guide. August Pullman was born with a facial difference that, up until now, has prevented him from going to a mainstream school. Starting 5th grade at Beecher Prep, he wants nothing more than to be treated as an ordinary kid--but his new classmates can't get past Auggie's extraordinary face. WONDER, now a #1 New York Times bestseller and included on the Texas Bluebonnet Award master list, begins from Auggie's point of view, but soon switches to include his classmates, his sister, her boyfriend, and others. These perspectives converge in a portrait of one community's struggle with empathy, compassion, and acceptance. "Wonder is the best kids' book of the year," said Emily Bazelon, senior editor at Slate.com and author of Sticks and Stones: Defeating the Culture of Bullying and Rediscovering the Power of Character and Empathy. In a world where bullying among young people is an epidemic, this is a refreshing new narrative full of heart and hope. R.J. Palacio has called her debut novel "a meditation on kindness" --indeed, every reader will come away with a greater appreciation for the simple courage of friendship. Auggie is a hero to root for, a diamond in the rough who proves that you can't blend in when you were born to stand out. Join the conversation: #thewonderofwonder, #choosekind

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R. J. Palacio is an accomplished writer whose work has resonated with readers around the world. R. J. Palacio has published several books that explore a range of topics, from fiction to nonfiction, and has received critical acclaim for the ability to weave compelling narratives. R. J. Palacio's writing style is known for its depth and authenticity, and has earned quite a loyal following of readers.

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Wonder

The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong at the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially. If you are none of these you can be sure it will kill you too but there will be no special hurry.

Sometimes resistance comes at too great a cost: sometimes it is better to break into pieces that can be picked up.

Understand yourself and those around you.

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Ernest Hemingway: The World Breaks Everyone

Both physical and emotional attraction are necessary for love. We all like to share our joys, sorrows, and life experiences with others. You may eventually question whether your relationship has a future if love solely depends on physical appeal. A close friendship is also necessary.

An essential component of a solid relationship is emotional attraction.

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Providing your whole focus</li></ul>Every woman desires to have someone in her life that truly sees and understands her. Be there if you want to be that person. <ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Having similar passions and life experiences</li></ul>Men who share their interests and aspirations in life are attractive to women. It is simple to build rapport when you two discover areas of agreement, share values and ideas, or have some similar experiences.<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">You should always make a woman feel at ease enough to be vulnerable with you.</li></ul>﻿Listen well. When women are vulnerable to males, they develop an emotional attachment to them.

How do women develop an emotional bond?

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Free exchange of ideas</li></ul>It’s hard for men to read minds. Never talk too much about yourself or for too long; just say what you mean to convey.  To strengthen the bond, listen well and be forthright and truthful about yourself. <ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Being present</li></ul>Be there for him through good times and bad. Be encouraging and considerate, and show affection when it feels most terrifying.<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">The capacity for humour, kindness, confidence, and passion</li></ul>Kind and caring women are inherently attractive to men. Having the same sense of humour is also a desirable quality.

How do males experience emotional attraction?

<ul><li class="ql-align-justify">Spend quality time together, communicate your feelings for your spouse, and connect with them without using physical contact. </li><li class="ql-align-justify">Do something that makes your lover happy once in a while.</li><li class="ql-align-justify">Offer assistance by actively listening to your spouse as they discuss their problems. </li><li class="ql-align-justify">It’s normal for partners to have different perspectives, so don’t try to change them. However, don’t try to impose your thoughts or ideals on others. </li><li class="ql-align-justify">Fight fairly: Real fights are a sign of true love. Therefore, don’t minimise or retreat from the confrontation out of fear.</li></ul>

5 suggestions to increase emotional closeness

Emotional intimacy is a strong bond between two individuals that goes beyond simple physical desire. It entails being vulnerable with one another and sharing feelings, ideas, worries, and hopes. Continue reading to learn how to create safe and secure attachment types in your love relationship.

Emotional attraction forms the foundation of deep, lasting relationships. Beyond physical chemistry, it fosters connection through shared values, trust, and open communication. This article explores the significance of emotional intimacy, how men and women develop emotional bonds, and practical ways to strengthen relationships through presence, understanding, and mutual respect.

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Rejection is not a reflection of your worth as a person. It is often influenced by factors such as timing, circumstances, or preferences, which have nothing to do with who you truly are. People's decisions are based on their own experiences, needs, and perceptions.

Understanding Rejection

1. Shift your focus from the outcome to the process.2. Challenge negative thoughts.3. Embrace rejection as part of life.4. Build self-confidence.5. Surround yourself with supportive people.

How To Overcome The Fear Of Rejection

Shift your focus from the outcome to the process. Instead of worrying about the result, focus on taking action. This helps reduce the pressure.

Challenge negative thoughts. When you fear rejection, you may jump to conclusions that aren't true. Question those thoughts and remind yourself that rejection isn't a reflection of your worth.

Embrace rejection as part of life. Everyone faces rejection—it’s not about you personally. Use it as a learning experience.

Build self-confidence. The more you believe in your worth, the less rejection will affect you. Take small steps to push yourself outside your comfort zone and celebrate progress.

Surround yourself with supportive people. Positive, understanding friends can help you feel more secure and less afraid of rejection.

Overcoming the fear of rejection starts with shifting your mindset.

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Do you feel like rejection feels personal to you at times?

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Someone who says "If you can't keep friends as a grown ass adult, that's a you-problem, not an adulting problem" is likely more extroverted and may not fully understand the deeper dynamics that can affect friendships, especially for introverts or those going through personal growth.

Your problem?

Extroverts tend to place a higher value on social connections and may find it easier to make and maintain friendships. They might see not having friends as an individual issue, rather than considering the complexities of life, personal circumstances, or emotional growth that could affect someone's ability to form deep connections.

Extroverts

- As for being "not deep," it could be that the person is more focused on surface-level social interactions and might not understand or value the introspective, more nuanced aspects of friendships, like what an introvert or someone going through personal growth might experience.

Not deep

Sometimes it's not about personal failure, but the way people change, grow, or prefer solitude.

- It’s more about quality than quantity—some relationships just don’t serve us as we evolve.- it’s a bit more nuanced than just ‘your problem.’ We all go through different phases.

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Do not waste your time in people who doesn't give shit about you. Do not waste your time in things or situations that don't serve your growth.

Your time is precious

Learn to focus on your goals, even if other don't believe in them.When you do, most of people going to leave you soon.

Not everyone will support your dream

Embrace it. Learn from it.Keep moving forward.Don't sympathize your shit, get up and move or die. Its your choice.

Failure is part of process

Take care of your mental, physical and emotional well being.Do not allow people to disturb you peace. If they do disturb(they don't give shit about you).Cut them loose.

Self-care is essential

Let go of things that are beyond your control.People change that is the trait. To be better. Focus on what you can change.

You can't control everything

Find a balance between personnel connection and self growth.

Relationship Matter, but so does your independence

No race, its journey. Take your time.

Its okay to not have everything figured out

Start managing money, saving and understanding financial independence early.

Financial literacy is the key

Do not settle for less than what your deserve in any area of life.Take risks.

Never settle

Don't let drama or negativity affect your mental peace.

Protect your peace

You are the average of the people you spend the most time with.

Surround yourself with people who inspire you

You already know this. It is a gentle reminder. 🛎  🛎 

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Be smart enough to realize this.  

Be clear about your feelings, intentions, and needs. Let the other person know that you value them and want to prioritize them.

1. Communicate openly

Be reliable and dependable, so the other person knows they can count on you when needed.

2. Show consistency

Listen, empathize, and support them through challenges. People are more likely to prioritize those who are there for them.

3. Be emotionally available

Prioritize the other person’s comfort and needs while also showing that you value them as a whole.

4. Respect their space and boundaries

Thoughtful gestures, being present, and showing that you're willing to make sacrifices for the relationship can make someone feel important.

5. Put in effort

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To truly become someone's priority, here's a more practical way to approach it:

Become someone's priority

Sin is a thing that writes itself across a man’s face. It cannot be concealed

But youth smiles without any reason

When a woman marries again it is because she detested her first husband. When a man marries again, it is because he adored his first wife. Women try their luck; men risk theirs

Moderation is a fatal thing. Enough is as bad as a meal. More than enough is as good as a feast

What fire does not destroy, it hardens

It is said that passion makes one think in a circle

Skepticism is the beginning of Faith

To define is to limit

Every effect that one produces gives one an enemy. To be popular one must be a mediocrity

Romance loved by repetition, and repetition converts an appetite into an art. Besides, each time that one loves is the only time one has ever loved. Difference of object does not alter singleness of passion. It merely intensifies it. We can have in life but one great experience at best, and the secret of life is to reproduce that experience as often as possible

In the common world of fact the wicked were not punished, or the good rewarded. Success was given to the strong, failure thrust upon the weak

Knowledge would be fatal. It is the uncertainty that charms one. A mist makes things wonderful

Anything becomes a pleasure if one does it too often

Life is a question of nerves and fibers, and slowly built-up cells in which thought hides itself and passion has its dreams

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The Picture of Dorian Gray III

I adore simple pleasures, they are the last refuge of the complex

Sin is the only real color-element left in modern life

Philanthropic people lose all sense of humanity. It is their distinguishing cjarac

Nowadays people know the price of everything and the value of nothing

Faithfulness is to the emotional life what consistency is to the life of the intellect — simply a confession of failure

There are many things that we would throw away if we were not afraid that others might pick them up

It is only sacred things that are worth touching

When one is in love, one always begins by deceiving one’s self, and one always ends by deceiving others

There is always something infinitely mean about other people’s tragedies

People are very fond of giving away what they need most themselves. It is what I call the depth of generosity

It was true that as one watched life in its curious crucible of pain and pleasure, one could not wear over one’s face a mask of glass, nor keep the sulphurous fumes from troubling the brain and making the imagination turbid with monstrous fancies and misshapen dreams

Experience is of no ethical value. It was merely the name men gave to their mistakes

To be in love is to surpass one’s self

The basis of optimism is sheer terror

I should fancy that the real tragedy of the poor is that they can afford nothing but self-denial. Beautiful sins, like beautiful things, are the privilege of the rich

The secret of remaining young is never to have an emotion that is unbecoming

There is always something ridiculous about the emotions of people whom one has ceased to lovr

When we blame ourselves we feel that no one else has a right to blame us

One can always be kind to people about whom one cares nothing

Conscience makes egotists of us all

The Picture of Dorian Gray II

Taking care of your happiness doesn’t mean neglecting others—it means showing up as your best self.

Happiness is Not Selfish

You don’t need to achieve more or become someone else to deserve happiness. You are worthy of joy right now.

You Are Enough Just as You Are

No matter what you’ve been through, you still deserve peace, love, and happiness. Your struggles don’t make you unworthy.

Your Past Does Not Define You

True happiness isn’t found in external things—it’s built through self-love, gratitude, and inner peace.

Happiness Comes from Within

Happiness isn’t a reward for hard work or suffering. It’s a natural part of life that you are allowed to experience.

You Don’t Need to Earn Joy

If someone makes you feel unworthy of happiness, they don’t belong in your life. Surround yourself with people who uplift you.

Toxic People Don’t Get to Decide Your Joy

Prioritizing your happiness means valuing yourself enough to walk away from what no longer serves you.

Choosing Yourself is a Form of Self-Respect

You don’t need grand achievements to be happy. Find joy in simple things—sunsets, laughter, music, or quiet moments.

Small Moments Matter

Don’t wait for the perfect moment to be happy. Choose to find joy in the present, even in imperfect situations.

Happiness is a Choice, Not a Destination

You are not responsible for carrying others’ burdens at the cost of your own happiness. Your well-being matters too.

Let Go of Guilt

Happiness makes you a better person, a kinder friend, and a stronger soul. The world needs your light—don’t dim it.

You Are Meant to Shine

"You deserve happiness, not because of what you’ve done, but simply because you exist."

Why Your Happiness Matters and How to Prioritize It

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